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Online Dudewithboobs

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It would seem that way. Where it is some days it’s nice to see someone glance as a way of reassurance when I’m feeling great about what is there. Other days it’s like here’s hoping no one notices anything “off” I love em nonetheless 

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I seemed to have leveled off on growth. 44 under, 52 above ( on a new chemo agent for the Prolactinoma) 

Off prednisone for a month now and thyroid dose increased a bit. The weight is no longer creeping up. It’s starting to go down slowly. Yea! 

Wondering what the projection will look like when the belly does not predominate.

I also have begun to enjoy my breasts like others here. They are a part of me, literally.🤗
Regards, Bob

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They really do begin to grow on you no pun intended lol. It’s always interesting to me the men on the other side of things who are adamant about get them off of me. Whereas others on this side welcome it and are fine with it. 

I’ve lost 11lbs and my chest didn’t minimize any. They are definitely more present but I’m not where you are by any means and can imagine your projection is going to be quite a sight

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The longer this goes on, and the fact that the other half has FINALLY admitted that i am not in the "male camp" fully, she realizes that its not changing. All the navy Seal Training stuff aside, it wont change the fact that my body is not "on that side". 

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DWB, it’s been a long journey for me but I no longer go to great lengths to hide, or even minimize my chest and projection. I don’t flaunt by wearing form fitting tops like women do, you’d be surprised how obscuring it is to just wear regular shirts, I wear what’s comfortable. I even enjoy being clocked by the glance down or the wide eyed look I will occasionally get. It’s actually kinda fun to be caught for being out of the “norm.”
I see so many men that could use support, that by being a bit out there, maybe we could help make it the “norm” for anyone who wants/needs to care for their breasts.
Tired of being uncomfortable so other people are comfortable.

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I wouldn’t be too surprise as my recent growth spurt experienced put me in a position of much tougher to hide. While still a small c cup/full b, the fullness acquired in a recent spurt has made my shirts tighter in the chest and more visible of what’s underneath. No huge concern but it is apparent that my chest is not typical of a man’s chest. 

Shirtless, my chest has taken on a much softer look. Whereas before the contour or side boob knot of tissue or crease was seen my chest still looked fairly in texture not very soft. Now it’s quite different. 

Even with working out daily. When flexing my chest it used to firm up and flatten out a bit where muscle tightened things up. Now when I flex majority of my chest remains soft contrary to still working out as I always have. It would appear breast tissue has taken over a bit. In the gym I feel them move more than before and reflections when doing tricep pull downs or others that push chest out, I can see more definition of what is boob than pec. 

I used to get nervous of the glances and never experienced too many ever and if so I felt they dismissed it due to my body type as a whole being muscular. But I feel especially if another spurt occurs I’m gonna be adjusting to how I look to others. 

I was telling someone earlier how soccer and other things I do in terms of athletics is gonna be tough as well. When last season running wasn’t tough at all. Now it is not uncomfortable but just weird feeling with my chest. I wear a pullover bra any time I go out and run now as a result. But being on a very masculine team and such running the risk of a bra being seen underneath is gonna be a decision I need to figure out. Things are fine until sweat creates a lot more visibility. 

I understand the enjoyment of being clocked. While mentioned earlier not much for me. Yesterday was cutting grass and a neighbor of mine who’s older was cutting his. We hang out a few times a month to chat on his patio and such and have drinks and he invited me over once done. I wrapped up and just put my mower and such up and headed over. Wife brought drinks out and we chatted bout various things for a bit. Few times I seen him glance down and squint a little. When he went inside to get another drink for us I looked down at myself and thought omg! The sweat and such definitely pulled my tank top down a bit and the curve of the inside of my chest was definitely showing a bit. And the knot and crease of tissue was very visible on the sides. He didn’t say anything at all but I’m pretty certain he was wondering does this guy have boobs lol. 


I see guys who have breast growth time to time. But very rarely do I see anyone who would count as needing a bra. More than not it’s quite overweight individuals or those who have just a little projection. It would be nice to see more men with sizable growth. It feels a bit lonely round my town feeling like I’m the only one who wears a bra for the reason needed. 

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They really do begin to grow on you no pun intended lol. It’s always interesting to me the men on the other side of things who are adamant about get them off of me. Whereas others on this side welcome it and are fine with it.
In my opinion from my own experience and from other comments posted, I think often the pivotal point acceptance is when one comes to try on a bra for the first time.

For me developing breasts at age 13 it was a deeply embarrassing experience at school and among friends with the usual constant taunts that I needed a bra. There was no ignoring the issue and it was clear everyone noticed I had boobs. But once I gave in and tried a bra on I was instantly amazed at how well I did fit a bra and further how I liked how it felt to wear a bra. It was unexpected how I suddenly liked looking down at my boobs  held in the cups and how it seemed so appropriate to have a bra on. From that point on I was more comfortable with myself when I was wearing a bra and I think I realized even at that young age I was destine to wear a bra. It was some combination of comfort both physically and emotionally when having a bra on. A positive re enforcement that has never left me and I became more satisfied with my breasts as I increased wearing a bra to a daily basis. After wearing a bra for a while it was increasing obvious that I was physically uncomfortable if braless and definitely emotionally unsatisfied not to have the boobs encased in the bra cups.

So the kids were right that I did need a bra but I was not able to admit that to them then. I do also think that if more guys with breast development tried a bra a number of them would reach similar conclusions and be more satisfied with themselves.
If the bra fits, wear it.

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I’d agree. Even today after wearing a bra fairly regularly for over a year, seeing my chest is still a bit of a taken aback view. 
Wearing a bra was terrifying. Until I tried one lol. 

There’s a guy at Home Depot who works in seasonal and is quite endowed. I often want to talk to him for some “help” just so I can try and bend over or stretch back or something that shows my bra so he can know guys wear these too. 

I feel if men could get out of their own head they’d realize how wonderful a bra is. 

For many I imagine life is just tough to wear one as well. Family, friends, community. It’s easier to avoid than to explain. 

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The longer this goes on, and the fact that the other half has FINALLY admitted that i am not in the "male camp" fully, she realizes that its not changing. All the navy Seal Training stuff aside, it wont change the fact that my body is not "on that side".
Some of us have bodies of football players and some of us have female shaped bodies.
I work out 3-4 times a week. Cant seem to build muscle where I want it. All I got was a bigger butt and thighs and my boobs stick out more. I have a female figure instead of that chiseled male body. Oh well...it is what it is. Just have to love yourself for what we have.

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Bingo.    


No I dont dance around in a beard and skirt.   


But I do have mostly women's clothing now, (jeans, shirts, etc.) because they do in fact FIT!


 

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