theres No Way you can compare me to a sumo wrestler. they are proportionate to thier weight& people Dont see Boobs, just fat.. i am NOT fat & in fairly decent shape so my body is looking more & more Female. i did put on 20 Lbs over the winter but thats cuz i bruised my ribs & couldnt exercise. ive lost 10 Lbs so far & i have an extra 10 Lbs on me to lose but ill lose that by summer then my boobs will look & be even larger, more pronounced & more Feminine. when i lost this 10 Lbs, They got bigger so its not the weight gain. My Boobs are actually growing & my body turning more & more female Every day. my big fear & concern is if im seen topless they are seeing a man's head on a female body
I never compared you to a Sumo wrestler. You asked for men with breasts who were not embarrassed going in public. I look at the Sumo wrestlers, I see breasts and bouncing redundant fat on spectacular athletes who are willing to shorten their lives in unhealthy ways for a sport.
I have seen men with female bodies who struggle with the issues. That is why I posted the video about the emotion of living with breasts in the male body. If there are female creating hormones circulating in the body, they tend to affect the entire body. It is not only the breast that changes, but they adopt a female fat pattern to the thighs and buttocks, change body hair that can lose beard and facial hair, even the tone of the voice can be different. So for some it is not even a male head on a female body, but an entire female body.
This is not you, nor am I comparing it to you. But, those cursed with such issues like this like this
Intersex the Grey Area between Male and Female struggle with having features of both sexes and also tend to hide and are embarrassed. That individual did have surgery by another surgeon but nobody bothered to investigate what that person's problem was. Doctors from his birth labeling him a male, pediatricians failing in their genital exams, endocrinologists, his prior surgeon, and other doctors never bothered to carefully look and find a real XX female with congenital adrenal hyperplasia a condition that should have been recognized at birth, assigned a female sex on his birth certificate, and had his adrenal problem medicated could have lived a normal female life. Instead he was cursed with way too much male and female hormones dousing his body (yes he is a legal male XX), his entire life causing both sex characteristics.
I have seen many others with such stress with other medical problems. They choose to try to find why, solve the underlying problem, and continue with their lives. But for my patients who feel they were trapped in a body of the other sex, most were frightened of exposure: their contours revealed in public. They did not try to show themselves but hid until their problems were resolved and then they explained they regained freedom. That is why I posted examples of how to camouflage such contours, so many others have asked me for help with such issues.
When one of my patients is having problems with breast growth or hormones making parts of the body female, I refer them to an experienced Endocrinologist to help resolve the issue.
However, do not construe that I am making that recommendation or any other recommendation to you, that is only what I would advise one of my own patients. I do not offer specific advice on any public forum. Such specific advice establishes a doctor patient relationship that the doctor can then be held responsible for but without the appropriate information necessary for that appropriate advice.
Hope this helps,
Michael Bermant, MD
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