first let me start by saying that this is NOT meant to be a put down or insult or anything like that,hopefully some of you guys will say to your self ya know JB is right...
let me start here....I have been reading a lot of posts here and come across a lot of guys that are Embarrassed with there condition, especially with the younger guys..
I am now 47 years old I am married to a very beautiful woman and I have 2 teenage daughters and a 7 year old son..
9 years ago I had a bad car accident busting up my lower spine,before then I was in very good shape,I worked out a lot,I was 180 pounds of muscle and my friends call me a bull dog,after that I had to spend a lot of time off my feet to try and heal from my injures then another year healing from my back surgery and in that time I gained a lot of weight (more than 100 pounds)
In that time I came down with a slight case of Geno,being as over weight as I was it was not noticeable, as a matter of fact I still looked like I had a sucken in chest,when I had that side effect to the low T med it got real bad, as I said in my last post they where as big as grape fruits but since went down to a large B to a small C cup.
At first I would not leave my house,I did not even want to leave my room,I did not want to let my 3 kids see me like that,my wife was 100% supportive to me.even telling me that,that look was an improvement to the sunken in chest look (bless her heart) but all I wanted to do was hide,and hide I did.After about 2 months of not leaving my room except to use the bathroom.One day like some one flipped a light switch it hit me,WHY AM I DOING THIS TO MY SELF,I never cared what people thought of me before,I dressed the way I wanted to kept my hair the way I wanted did what I wanted and with every thing else in life I did it my way and did not give a flying *&^&^%$ what any one thought, what makes this any different...
There is only one thing I cant bring myself to do and that's take shirtless pictures of my self,but it's not because of my boobs I have always been camera shy there is not many pics of me (except of a few wedding pictures) but I now wear a bra and I don't give a who knows it, I like to wear one I find it very comfortable,I cant even sleep without one,I wear what ever kind of clothes I want,I wont even think twice about wearing a tank top on a hot day,I do how ever this thing about the shoulder straps of the bra showing outside the shoulder straps of the tank,but I even find it a little trashy when I see woman do it.. In closing I guess what I am trying to say is THIS IS ME I AM WHO I AM AND I DONT CARE WHO DONT LIKE IT,IF YOU DONT LIKE HOW I LOOK IT'S YOUR PROBLEM BECAUSE I DONT CARE,IF YOU WANT TO JUDGE ME BECAUSE OF THE WAY I LOOK I HAVE NO NEED OR TIME FOR YOU......