gyno is only half my problem. i hate my life

[sparta]

hi, i have been lurking at this forum on and off for a months now so i thought i would join

i am from the uk and have had gyno since i was about 15 or 16 i think.i am now 27. i used to wonder if it was just fat that could be worked off through exercise. my weight has been up and down over the last 10 years, but whether i was 15 stone or 12 stone i still had gyno that would not shift. i have no photos but they look similar to the top left on this link from karadis' site
http://www.niptuck.co.uk/photogallery.php#br5

and not only is gyno a problem i also suffer from phimosis, which is when the foreskin is too tight to roll back. i used to think my male thingy was normal until a couple of years ago. then i found out that my condition is called phimosis.

both these conditions have really gotten me down. most people would feel unfortunate dealing with just one of these but i have to deal with both. i always ask why me? and why cant i be normal?

i have never had a proper sexual relationship due to these problems. a couple of girlfriends which never lasted, and i finished before we got to sex. i think my parents wonder why i have never had a proper girlfriend. in a way i blame my parents and feel like telling them this but i know i shouldnt.

the sad thing is the only sexual expereince i have had is when i have paid for it(how sad is that?), sex was very uncomfortable due to the phimosis and the gyno problem also made it very embarrassing, but i guess i just wanted to find out what it was like being with a woman.

i have probably spent 2 to 3 grand on paid sex over the years. looking back this could have went towards surgery but most of the time i thought there was no cure for this.

without being really good looking i wouldnt say i was bad looking and i know without these 2 problems i could be happy. i wouldnt say i suffer from severe depression but i do get depressed from time to time.

there is my story and reading through some threads has given me hope that the gyno can be turned around.
good luck to everyone in their fight and for those that have been cured, live your life to the fullest.

[headheldhigh01]

right on.  and fixing 50% of the biggest mental obstacles in your life would be a hell of an opportunity. 

[91deejay]

wow man.  kudos for sharing your story.  best of luck to you on your journey! stay strong

[sparta]

thanks for the replies. i know there are people in this world with bigger problems than me but it still doesnt really help to be honest.
i just cant imagine growing up, getting married and having kids with these 2 problems.

[Grandpa Bambu]

Is there a fix for phimosis?

GB...

[sparta]

Is there a fix for phimosis?

GB...

i have read up about it and apart from some people who have had it fixed with creams then circumcision seems to be the only cure, and i dont really like the idea of that

[Grandpa Bambu]

Just curious...  when you have intercourse, does the fact that the foreskin is not retracted interfere with your pleasureablity?

Of those women who you had intercourse with, did any of them say that your phimosis was an issue?

Also, how do you clean your penis properly if your foreskin cannot be retracted?

GB...

[sparta]

Just curious...  when you have intercourse, does the fact that the foreskin is not retracted interfere with your pleasureablity?

Of those women who you had intercourse with, did any of them say that your phimosis was an issue?

Also, how do you clean your penis properly if your foreskin cannot be retracted?

GB...

yes, sex is uncomfortable and not what it should be. i dont even enjoy having sex. i used to think when i thought my male thingy was normal at why do people enjoy sex so much when it was like this?

about the women question. regrettably the only time i have had sexual intercourse is when i have paid for it with a few escorts and one did say i should get it checked out but i never have. the couple of girlfriends i have had never reached the bedroom department due to the this and, obviously, the gyno

about cleaning it, i wash it as best i can, though it is very difficult. when it is flacid i can pull it back to just very slightly past the top of the glans

i guess i should have went doctors about it years ago but i never did. i would even settle for a circumcision if i knew for certain it would go well and be left with no problems afterwards with which i have read about: less sensation, problems with erections etc.

[Grandpa Bambu]

Really?  You could have erection problems from a circumcision?

GB...

[sparta]

Really?  You could have erection problems from a circumcision?

GB...

i read it somewhere on the internet when i was looking it up. i am not sure how reliable the source was.

[Grandpa Bambu]

If it were me dude, I'd get a circumcision without a second thought.

GB...

[sparta]

If it were me dude, I'd get a circumcision without a second thought.

GB...

thanks for the advice. i was thinking if could get this problem sorted while saving up for gyno surgery. my ideal situation is that in 12-18 months time both can be sorted out

just checked your pics out from your link as well. well done on your great results. it is good to know that there are people like you are still here long after your problem has been fixed helping others

[Grandpa Bambu]

thanks for the advice. i was thinking if could get this problem sorted while saving up for gyno surgery. my ideal situation is that in 12-18 months time both can be sorted out

Keep focused and save your pennies my man. There IS a light at the end of the tunnel...   

Would there be any cost to you for circumcision?

just checked your pics out from your link as well. well done on your great results.

Thanks dude... Yeah, JCF did an awesome job... 

it is good to know that there are people like you are still here long after your problem has been fixed helping others

Yeah it's good to have a few regulars (Grandpa Dan, HeadHeldHigh1, the Docs, myslef, etc...) to guide the newcomers who need a helping hand...


GB...

[sparta]

thanks for the advice. i was thinking if could get this problem sorted while saving up for gyno surgery. my ideal situation is that in 12-18 months time both can be sorted out

Keep focused and save your pennies my man. There IS a light at the end of the tunnel...   

Would there be any cost to you for circumcision?

just checked your pics out from your link as well. well done on your great results.

Thanks dude... Yeah, JCF did an awesome job... 

it is good to know that there are people like you are still here long after your problem has been fixed helping others

Hey, just paying-it-forward my man... 

GB...

i think i should be able to get it done free over here on the NHS, if it is for medical reasons. not certain though.

i just dont like the idea of showing my male thingy to a doctor though

[Grandpa Bambu]

i just dont like the idea of showing my male thingy to a doctor though

Ya do what ya gotta do my man... 

GB...