When I was setting up the appointment for the surgery with the receptionist, she flipped this big date book open and she went straight to July. She was giving me the option of July 13 or July 20. I opted for the 13.
One of the reasons why I wanted my consult appointment as early as possible was because I knew that as time moved on, Dr. Fielding's fee would go up. I'm sure if I saw him in Nov. 2004, he would have charged me $1200 to $1300. He said he's seeing a lot more patients with this condition. The extra $200 is obligatory considering the potential happiness and peace I will have in getting rid of my gyne. I can take my son swimming and just worry about him and not worry about who's watching me or worst yet, some smart ass teenager(s) making some hurtful remarks when I'm with my son. I'd be more hurt because my son heard.
The guys in the States and other parts of Canada must be envious that I'm only paying $1500. They have to shell out in most cases more than twice that much. As I mentioned before, I would have paid $3000 and up if I had to. When I was at the office on Monday, some guy from Halifax had flown in to see the good doctor. I'm not sure if he had gyne and I obvioulsy don't know what his story is but good for him and also to the guy from Vancouver who are both proactive in their approach.
Very reassuring:
When the Doctor told me my case was more severe than others my next question to him was,
"can you make me look normal?"
He looked up at me, smiled and said "ye, that's not a problem."
For a split second, I thought he was a super hero.
It's official in my mind; I've now seeked professional help and I'm on my way to getting my gyne removed. I'm sitting at my desk at work right now feeling as if a huge weight has been lifted from me (and I haven't even had the operation yet...bad joke). I know as the operation date draws near, feelings of self doubt and fear will start to seep in. What if the good doctor really botches the procedure? That question will be popping into my mind in a month but for now, I'll just smile and be happy in knowing that I've started the ball rolling.
To my gyne brothers out there, get it done. If you're happy with your gyne, the more power to you. If you're not, get it done. That's my axiom, motto, saying, whatever you want to call it, Get It Done.