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Offline Justagirl💃

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Pride in one's body, exactly as it is built is quite nice. Way to go Evolver!!!!
When life gives you curves,
flaunt them! 💃
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Offline Gino

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I believe we overthink the issue. Yeah sometimes I get a downward glance at them but mostly not. When I wear a tank top I get a few more downward looks and stares. 

My GF said that before mine budded and later became quite obvious she never noticed them on other men and now she sees them everywhere... sorta like buying a new car and all of a sudden you see that model everywhere!

Offline DianeMcG

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Yeah, think that tee shirt might be a little too thin, a heavier weight tee might work better, just be aware of any wind that might come up and outline your shape. Putting an open button up shirt on over will obscure even more and you can wear a bra without having to worry.
I’ve pretty much gotten past the occasional realization from other people and actually kinda like the brain gymnastics that cross their face when they actually see that my chest is actually breasts and contained in a bra.
I'm looking forward to that as my breasts become more obvious and I fill out a bra. No hiding for me!

Offline DianeMcG

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I catch people looking at my chest all the time. People notice. My wife even has said she has caught people looking at my chest. People just look, no harm. Just a guy with boobs😂
Boobs are just nice to look at in my opinion, no matter who is sporting them. I was totally flat chested all my life, even compared to other guys. Happy to be developing now. I'll wear them proudly. 

Offline j_kinoff

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When I wear a tank top I get a few more downward looks and stares.
I understand….

I dropped by a WalMart to check out some Vanity Fair underwire bras. I’m a 42C, but some of them are getting a bit full. I was going to gather up a 42D and see if the fit was better. Just my luck…there wasn’t the first 42D in the specific VF bra I wanted to try on, in either white, black, or nude.

I did stumble onto a 44C…in nude…and decided to give it a try, based on the sister sizing concept.

The fit was great, but for whatever reason, the 44 band size didn’t feel as “loose” as I thought it would, but the bra was obviously NEW, too.

Getting back to the tank top quote, I saw some tank tops on a clearance rack. I hesitated about buying them, but hey….a deal is a deal, right?

Below is the 44C and one of the two tank tops I bought. Note….I’d never chance wearing that one in public, unless a long sleeve Duluth Trading flannel was involved.

My bra straps may or may not have been adjusted a little strategically….

« Last Edit: Yesterday at 01:14:20 AM by j_kinoff »

Offline TracyH

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Good Afternoon J

I live in the Duluth Trading Company's no yank tanks. I tried the one's with the built in shelf bra but didn't really feel like at gave me any support. So I go with the no yank tank with a bra underneath and that works great.

Tracy


 

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