Liposuction is not widely accepted in India.
Yes I agree . We have suffered a lot due to gynecomastia .
But please learn to accept it .
People may tease you some time .
As you grow older , it will be ok. you will meet more mature people and it will be ok.
I have had surgery and now feeling so much Guilty .
You know the arranged marriage culture in india.
I am feeling very much embrassed to talk about the surgery to the girl.
Also i m feeling very much gulity to hide about the surgery before marriage .
I feel thats cheating to hide it.
One of the girl, both of the families liked .
We also liked each other .
Once we got little closer , i told her about the surgery .
Unfortunatly she rejected me saying there could be future health complications due to liposuction.
Guys , you may have got the guts to talk about the condition to our parents / best friends to accompany for surgery.
But, its really hard to explain it to a unknown girl.She would never understand.
Post surgery mental stress is killing me now.
I would suggest you to not to undergo suregery .
Its really a huge step.
Slowly start accepting the gynecomastia condition .
Start undress in few occassions infront of your parents , siblings , cousing etc.
Initially they will tease you. But They will do once or twice .
You will get used to it .
Then slowly undress in some occasion infront of your best friends .
The same applies here .
They will tease you some time. You will get used to it .
Surgery is very bad idea .
I regret each and every minute after having surgery .
Please dont do it.
Even though , you may be operated by the best surgeon in the world. You will have some differences .
My results are 75% ok.
Going against nature is very bad idea .
Plastic surgery should have been done only with medical necessity .
Its hard to tell a girl that you had boobs and you removed it surgically .
Just imagine saying above to a unknown girl during arranged marriage process.
Do you think , she will accept you ?? There is no chance .
She will defenitely reject you . Its not her fate to accept a punctured body.
Just google once "bad effects of liposuction". You will get a lot more negative .
Its really hard to explain .
To change , what god has given us is a pathetic idea .
Please dont think about what people might think about moobs.
You may not be undressing infront of them every day .
They might see and laugh once , Thats it .
They have their own job to do...
Its not like they gonna tease forever in life. If they tease you , you start firing back at them . ask them to shut up.
You have lived with moobs for more than 10-15 years.
you can live with them forever. No problem.
Dont think about suregery please . Its a bad idea . You will definely regret it .
Learn to accept slowly . There are many people born with several other body defects .
Its not the end of the world for them. When they are living happily , why cant we do?
Even though , we belived doctor and undergone surgery , there might be some side effects due to going agianst nature(lipo).
There will be defenitey some scar made for liposuction.
Also still i have some scar in my areola . They are not in round shape as before , they are going droopy when they are loose .
Scars are unavoidable.
Initally i thought the surgery will improve my confidence level.
But to be honest , i am into more depression now due to surgery .
You will defenitely not get 100% of what result you imagined.
Your surgeon is not a god to create new chest . There is something called nature, that we cant change 100%,
I believe my surgeon did the best job he could do. But nature was not infavour of me .
i strongly advise you not to go for surgery .
I feel like now my life is lost .
My family supported me for the surgery . But now all of us regret for getting surgery done .
Beauty against nature is very bad idea. Again i say pls dont do surgery.
I thought , surgery is like a piece of cake .
I planned well ahead . Did some good research for choosing the doctor .
I definetely thought a "New ME" will be born after surgery .
But that not the case happened.
I gone through the surgery with high confidence . I managed the pain . All that , we will be able to do.
For one week after the surgery , we will not be able to take bath .
Also wearing the compression garment for 2-3 months is really a pain .
In india , pepole often tap others shoudler or back. Its really hard to explain with some fake reasons to them.
Compression garments are really tough to wear for 2-3 months. Give a big thought about it before undergoing suregery .
When someone touches your back , they can feel the garment . you may need to explain them.
whatever you see in internet is not 100% true . There are some good cases . There are more of intenet marketing .
Dont fall as a trap into it .
Being honest in the best thing in the world . That only improves your self confidence .
"I M WHAT I M" is the best thing you could do to yourself.
never give a thought about what others might think of yourself . Give them a f**k off symbol when they tease you.
Its all in our mind .
Dont do surgery for the sake of what others might think.
If you cant beat your mind , others will beat you.
Be strong . Dont go for surgery . Its a trap.
Surgery is worse than actual gynecomastia condition.
Why to puncture our body just for beauty purpose ? I seriouly regret each and every second.
Please dont do the mistake i did.........................
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