What is your worst gynecomastia memory :'(

[SoX]

I was in a pub and some lads who im fairly certain were unaware of my problem bet one of the barstaff to bite my nipple so boys bein boys they pinned me down took my shirt off and the girl who i actually go to college with said im not goin near them they look like womens obviously id had a few bevvies by then so it didnt really faze me and carried on with the night anyway we came into college the next day and i sat down at the table and heard her telling everyone about my and i qoute "Bitch breasts" i laughed along even though she was causing me so much pain infront of the girl i like my mates and some tools who enjoy p*****g people off i literally felt like standing up slapping the bitch and saying you know what its actually a disease that i can do nothing about so stop being such an ignorant little tart, Also a holiday in Corfu we had animators there who basically just did sport well i wore a shirt to every activity and the only time i didnt one of them came up to me and said they are bigger than my girlfriends and i can take banter but these are my biggest insecuritys. Thankfully one of the others who ran football did shirts and skins and he knew how i felt and kept me on shirts which i was very thankful for but even my sister was saying haha he's got man boobs its very embarassing because ive always been the golden child in my parents eyes smartest, most athletic, most outgoing and i had to support my sister through years of bullying so it really hurt, my mum just said oh he's just put on a little weight and i went to the gym got fitter and more toned however i now have 2 inches diameter of muscle behind it now and it just shows it more i dont want to lose the muscle but im to young to go throught the op on my own i.e. funding and i really cant face my mum with it and no way my dad so like most of us on here i assume we go on in silent agony just praying everyday that noone notices. Sorry about the poor english and poor structuring this is just the only outlet ive had since i found out about it

[demha]

^instead of living through silent agony, you could always just talk with your mom. Btw Im 19 and going into surgery, from your posts it seems like youre around the same age, maybe you arent to young for OP.

[cools242]

I am only 17 and my whole life has been hindered because i have a puffy nipple. I'm embarrassed to take off my shirt so i rarely go the pool in the summer, I can never go the beach with my friends,

I'm embarrassed to have a girlfriend if she eventually has to see me with my shirt off

I really want surgery, but I'm embarrassed to ask my parents and have people around me find out.
When all my other friends have their shirts off on a hot summer day, I always have to have some excuse to keep mine on.
I'm a cross country runner and I never take my shirt off even on really hot days. Once the coach made me take my shirt off and nobody said anything but i could tell they noticed

For any who has a puffy nipple, and has/had a girlfriend
how did she react and was it a big deal? were u embarrassed?

[Pacifico]

Any real girl won't care.  You will, but she won't.  She is not dating a nipple, she is dating you.  She probably has something she hates about herself and is just as worried as you.   To her it is a pebble, To you it is a boulder.  Don't let it stop you, you only live once.  Stay strong!

[george1977]

That's a good point you make dude... I too, didn't think much of my G when i was in public school... It was in gr. 7-8 that I started to become very self conscious about my chest.


My worst G memory....

A few weeks prior to my surgery, I was at a union meeting (contract vote) and as we lined up to vote, one guy (half in the bag) grabbed a m(o)(o)b and yelled out 'Look at the t.i.t.s on this guy'.... Everyone laughed... I wanted to crawl under a rock and die... 

GB

That is really horrid, GB. I feel for you.

Worst memory of mine was changing room. Someone said 'haha you have really weird nipples' and everyone laughed. I nutted him in the face and got suspended for 2 weeks.

I don't regret it though. I'd much rather get punched in the face than have gyne. He caused me more pain than I caused him.

You nutted him in the face?  Does that mean you punched him the face...or you walked right over there and teabagged him?  Because I guarantee that would put and end to people mocking you if they got your scrote in the face every time.

No, he NUTTED in his face. That means he jerked off and ejaculated on the guys facial area. That's a pretty crazy thing to do.

[GPTkid]

Any real girl won't care.  You will, but she won't.  She is not dating a nipple, she is dating you.  She probably has something she hates about herself and is just as worried as you.   To her it is a pebble, To you it is a boulder.  Don't let it stop you, you only live once.  Stay strong!

I agree 100%, so encouraging^

[patsdude14]

There was no specific memory for me.  Just the constant scheming of how I can get in the pool without anyone seeing me, or rummaging through all of my shirts to find one that wouldn't look awful.  I'm almost 2 weeks post op and I can't tell you how great it feels to wear a polo and walk into a room without thinking about my gynecomastia.  If you're having second thoughts about the surgery get it done, its well worth it.

[what2do?]

great thread ! i can totally relate to everyone here.. i've had a few worst moments but i think the one that tops them was actually my own doing .. one of my female coworkers had a crush on me about a year ago, we started hanging out etc. but i really wasn't in to her.. i guess i just needed her for comfort cause i just broke up with my x gf about a few months prior.. one day i got really drunk while chatting with her online, i don't know what got into me but i just started to let my MB frustration out on her, about how bad i had felt for many years, that i was thinking about surgery etc .. she has always been there for me, to listen, and to understand what i was going through during my break up with my x gf..because of that, i think i might have gotten alittle too comfortable with her,  and because i was drunk also at that time, i decided to vent my MB fruntration out on her lol, i even gave her the link to this site.. anyways, at first she said that it wasn't a big deal and that i looked good but after that conversation, i noticed that she became more distant, like she was tuned off or something .. when i saw her the next day at work i felt like a total idiot, i couldn't even look her in the eyes, it was indeed one of the most embarrassing moments in my life.. we still talk everynow and then but her attraction to me has definately gone away.. lesson learned (1) she was turned off because of my insecurity and lack of confidence, NOT because of the MB's (2) if you ever want to hault a girl's attraction to you in a "nice" way, just follow the steps above.

[Pacifico]

Glad to hear you realize that it was not your gyne, but your self confidence that turned her off.  So many guys believe it is the gyne, but attitude is everything!  I have seen guys with huge gyne land hot chicks because they had great attitude and made girls laugh!  Nice post.

[biggieboobs]

whats good guys!! i cant believe there is a place to talk about my boobs that has been killing me mentally for the past 11 years of my life!! this is my first posting on this site.  this is an interesting topic. i have read everyone of the replys. omg!! i do feel everyones stories!! i laughed as i read them.. not casue i am making fun off u people. it just reminded me so much of my past experiences. lol. well.. i can not finger point to one certain experience that was the worst casue they was all equally as bad. but one bad experience was about 2 weeks ago. i was driving to 7 eleven with this hot chick that i was tryin to hook up with. i get to the store i hop out my whip with her and get some munchies. as i exit the store i see a dude that i know from around my area and he was really drunk and the bar he came outta was  2 stores from 7 eleven. so i get into my car with her and i am trying to get outta there to aviod conversation with him. but as i turn the key he runs up yelling my name.. so i had wait for him to come to my window.  he like hey whats good man.. when u comming for a drink with me. he like there are breasts every where in there man. im like wow thats cool. mean while my chick is listening looking at us from the passenger seat. then outta no where he fully grabs my left boob and says nice breasts in the bar like this. and my "girl" starts laughing 
i was soo pissed off at him but more ashamed that she saw him jiggling my breast. so i finally got away from him and drove off. i was so untoasty the rest of the night. it felt as if she was looking at my breasts as i was driving with her. and i had my seatbelt on so the strap was making my breasts look even worse. so i just fully retreated and dropped her off. i had to casue my confidence was shot after that incident. i was acting weird. the worst when u hit those pot holes and your breasts start shaking from the impact. i live in new york so the roads are the worst!! 
thats just one of many bad incidents.  i am 24 years old and i sick of hidding my big breasts!!  january 27 is the big day.. i hope my surgury will go well!!

[what2do?]

ouch man that sucks  what an ahole.. hope you hooked up with that girl atleast.

[iFlow]

Probably taking off my shirt in gym class for a required spine check or whatever. There were these 3 girls who I had interest in. All three of them saw them. The main girl who I loved just stared, while the other was surprised, and the other just yelled out, "OMG he has boobs". This was back in 8th grade.

But actually, everyday with this crap just adds to another day in the collection of memories. The everyday grind of just trying to mask this crap. I wish it was impossible for men to have gynecomastia unless they have surgery, seriously, like it makes me think if people with gynecomastia are secretly transsexuals or some crap. Almost a new breed of people.

[biggieboobs]

i only made out with her 
i dident get the chance to beat that yet.
hopefully one day. i am getting surgury less than 2weeks from now. so most likely ima try for round 3 with her later this year after i recover! lol.

[SoX]

i hear all the time your imagining things noone even cares but i care and its a huge embarasment so im gettin a loan as soon as i turn 18 and gettin these babies chopped off

[helloHELLO]

i only made out with her 
i dident get the chance to beat that yet.

lmao...beat lol
i feel you on the pot holes and seatbelt thing lol.
i'm from nyc too and before i had my gyne removed i would always put the chest part of the seatbelt behind me, or not where my seatbelt at all.

and i would always drive with my right hand so that my arm could somewhat block the view of my chest