What is your worst gynecomastia memory :'(

[dondante]

I thought this thread was what is your worst gynecomastia memory, not is there a God and does he/she love/hate me.

Cellar_Door, while I would agree with your assessment of the universe, I would never be so arrogant as to negatively characterize a person's religious or spiritual belief. There are billions of people on this planet who believe they have a personal relationship with their God. You, nor I, have any right to ridicule their beliefs, just as much as they have no right to ridicule ours. In the end, none of us know wtf we are doing here. We know nothing, except our own ignorance.

So, let's get back to talking about nipple pinching, shirts versus skins games, and the like.

[Cellar_Door]

I thought this thread was what is your worst gynecomastia memory, not is there a God and does he/she love/hate me.

Cellar_Door, while I would agree with your assessment of the universe, I would never be so arrogant as to negatively characterize a person's religious or spiritual belief. There are billions of people on this planet who believe they have a personal relationship with their God. You, nor I, have any right to ridicule their beliefs, just as much as they have no right to ridicule ours. In the end, none of us know wtf we are doing here. We know nothing, except our own ignorance.

So, let's get back to talking about nipple pinching, shirts versus skins games, and the like.

Fair enough, though I was trying to help him, not ridicule him. If he thinks god is punishing him, I want to show him how absurd that really is so he can liberate himself from that insidious, negative belief.

No one gave you gyno to punish you. It just happens, it's biological, and it's no one's fault.

[demha]

I thought this thread was what is your worst gynecomastia memory, not is there a God and does he/she love/hate me.

Cellar_Door, while I would agree with your assessment of the universe, I would never be so arrogant as to negatively characterize a person's religious or spiritual belief. There are billions of people on this planet who believe they have a personal relationship with their God. You, nor I, have any right to ridicule their beliefs, just as much as they have no right to ridicule ours. In the end, none of us know wtf we are doing here. We know nothing, except our own ignorance.

So, let's get back to talking about nipple pinching, shirts versus skins games, and the like.

Fair enough, though I was trying to help him, not ridicule him. If he thinks god is punishing him, I want to show him how absurd that really is so he can liberate himself from that insidious, negative belief.

No one gave you gyno to punish you. It just happens, it's biological, and it's no one's fault.

I understand where you're coming from but;

If you think about it, imaging the creator of the universe - of all the billions of planets and galaxies, all the billions of humans that ever lived, dreamed, hoped, fought, loved, hated, suffered, and died on our own tiny planet in this insanely massive universe, all the horrific and traumatic and earth shattering events that have taken place ever since humans evolved, the sheer complexity of so many people interacting together for a short time on this spec of cosmic dust before they die, full of millions of children who live with maggots coming out of their eyes and born with genetic diseases that cause untold misery, that the creator of the universe thinks you - a single primate amongst billions - is so important enough in the scheme of the universe as to warrant endowing you with pubertal gyno in order to give you some humbleness, then hooollleeeyy shit


You're imagining* the creator with human characteristics, as if he has priorities and issues to deal with in order from most important to least. As if the universe you live in has the same value to you as him.

"is so important enough in the scheme of the universe as to warrant endowing you with pubertal gyno"

I never said that, when did I ever say that I am that important? or that this part of my life is that important? Of course I understand that there are problems much much greater then mine, and there are plenty of people who would give a rats ass about gyne because their problems are greater. All I said was maybe somewhere down the line I did something to deserve gynecomastia. Is that impossible? Don't put words in my mouth.

Yes, I do believe he is able to handle all problems in a way as a human I can't describe simply because I cant compare. And unlike you I don't imagine the creator based on my own experiences and values, I dont imagine him at all, I use teachings of culture and religious books as references. You're outlook on life isnt going to change mine regardless of what you say, so save yourself the typing if your whole point with arguing me is to:

"show him how absurd that really is so he can liberate himself from that insidious, negative belief."

That said I understand where you are coming from and that your outlook on life is different than mine. I just hope you can take into consideration that my outlook on life is different than yours.

" let's get back to talking about nipple pinching, shirts versus skins games, and the like. " I agree.

[Cellar_Door]

I realise now that your mind is made up (closed, I dare say), so I won't push the topic.

Good luck to you

[demha]

good luck to you also.

[carguy]

I avoided a relationship with a girl I really, really liked - and she was crazy about me. Damn it, 4 years later it still pisses me off.

Happened to me too. In fact, she even asked me out.

count me in. 

[Cellar_Door]

Regardless of anyone's religious beliefs, you must always be aware of karma, being it is the real deal. 

What?
Karma doesn't exist. It's in your imagination.

There are people who have committed murder and rape and nothing bad happens to them in their lives. Then there are people who are warm, big hearted, generous and wonderful, and they could be the ones who get murdered or killed by some psychotic animal. Wrong place, wrong time. It's all random. As intuitive-thinking primates, we are just desperate to find patterns of justice and punishment in an indifferent universe, because it helps us sleep at night.

[demha]

 Plz more worst gynecomastia memory stories!! lmao.

Cellar_Door, give your story, if you didnt already give it. I'd like to hear your worst gynecomastia memory.

[pharmerjoe]

probably the whole 7 years is a bad experience, but got a few.
The usual changing room scenario at school. I used to dread PE at school, as every year we had to do a swimming for a few weeks. And as you can imagine, the chavs (anyone from outside the Uk can google this term) would be there saying "you got boobs",etc.

Also, on a bus going to london for a family friends wedding and the guys kid brother (about 11 years old) was just generally messing about and he was punching me lightly a few times, but he punched me on the chest, and said "Hey, that felt like a boob!". This was only last year (when i was 21) and after leaving school, I have never gone swimming, or shown my chest in public, so just kind of forgot about it, but this just brought all the bad memories back.

3rd one was when i was just walking along the street and was wearing a fleece that did not hide my man boobs well. A group of drunk guys and girls were passing me and the girls in the middle shouted " WHATS WRONG? YOU GOT breasts?", to which the whole group started laughing and jeering. I just continued walking and pretended i didn't hear them, but inside i felt like shit.

Still get annoyed by certain things now. when going to the gym i dont take my shirt off, and i dont use the showers, i just wait until i get home. Also, having your back slightly stooped can hide man boobs quite well, but now the years of standing like that are taking its toll, and i now have a stooped back permanently. At work, i have to wear shirts, and cos i need to tuck the shirt in, it does not hide it well, so i stoop my back slightly. However, my boss is starting to notice, and he starts making fun of me saying "why do u stoop your back?" and stuff. I felt like smashing his face in with a crowbar...

[SoX]

Regardless of anyone's religious beliefs, you must always be aware of karma, being it is the real deal. 

What?
Karma doesn't exist. It's in your imagination.

There are people who have committed murder and rape and nothing bad happens to them in their lives. Then there are people who are warm, big hearted, generous and wonderful, and they could be the ones who get murdered or killed by some psychotic animal. Wrong place, wrong time. It's all random. As intuitive-thinking primates, we are just desperate to find patterns of justice and punishment in an indifferent universe, because it helps us sleep at night.

You should stop shooting peoples beliefs down its looks very arrogant. I am not a religous man  infact im a physicist so i couldnt be further from it but if there is 1 thing i do believe in is karma for 1 its practically newtonian every action has an equal and opposite re action and 2 i like to believe that you do something nice you get something nice done to you, you do something wrong you get something wrong done too you.

Now i am not saying for one minute that it is karma that gave me gyne but i think on some levels karma is so blatantly infront of your eyes its too obvious to see but im no pusher and i dont expect to change someones opinion on it from what i can say but i wouldnt say what you believe is wrong either because it might be right for you it might be how you get too sleep at night and who am i to try and corrupt that just let people believe what they want to believe itll be a much happier world for you and for the people around you.

[Cellar_Door]

Regardless of anyone's religious beliefs, you must always be aware of karma, being it is the real deal. 

What?
Karma doesn't exist. It's in your imagination.

There are people who have committed murder and rape and nothing bad happens to them in their lives. Then there are people who are warm, big hearted, generous and wonderful, and they could be the ones who get murdered or killed by some psychotic animal. Wrong place, wrong time. It's all random. As intuitive-thinking primates, we are just desperate to find patterns of justice and punishment in an indifferent universe, because it helps us sleep at night.

You should stop shooting peoples beliefs down its looks very arrogant. I am not a religous man  infact im a physicist so i couldnt be further from it but if there is 1 thing i do believe in is karma for 1 its practically newtonian every action has an equal and opposite re action and 2 i like to believe that you do something nice you get something nice done to you, you do something wrong you get something wrong done too you.

Now i am not saying for one minute that it is karma that gave me gyne but i think on some levels karma is so blatantly infront of your eyes its too obvious to see but im no pusher and i dont expect to change someones opinion on it from what i can say but i wouldnt say what you believe is wrong either because it might be right for you it might be how you get too sleep at night and who am i to try and corrupt that just let people believe what they want to believe itll be a much happier world for you and for the people around you.

A physicist who can barely spell and construct a grammatically correct sentence? Newton's law cannot be so absurdly extrapolated.

I only shoot down very very silly arguments. Otherwise, I'm super open minded and liberal.

[milesed1]

My worst memory was my 4 year-old son saying I had "big boobies like Momma". That hurt far more than anything kids said growing up. Glad I got it fixed.

[GynO_DuDe]

Going to a theme park in summer with a f*ck!ng puffer jacket on, 3 quarter length trousers & sandals ... I looked like an ABSOLUTE tw4t, I was sweating my ar$e off, and the people I went with couldn't get their head round why I simply refused to just walk around in my nice bright orange t-shirt I had underneath.

[b13]

the worst memory for me happened a couple days ago.
i was walking back from a park with two of my friends, one walking in front and the other walking side by side with me.
the one on the side started grabbing at my chest so I started yelling at him to stop.
he said sorry but it really doesn't matter to me I don't see myself hanging out with this kid anymore.

[nzwelly]

man i dont kinda get it about this puffy nipple thing. how people with it get so down about it and all.

i can relate to guys who have breast or lil breast cuz of gland who get surgery and are afraid to go in the pool ect.

but just 1 long kinda nipple, is that, that all bad? one of my gud mates has a puffy nipple, its big. and hes like one of the skuxest kids at college, in the top basketball team and rugby team. and has one of the hottest girlfriend. and he has his shirt of nearly all the time.

i had very pointy breast and had surgery 2 months ago, which im stoked about. but if i had puffy nipples nstead of breast gynocomastia, i dont think i wuda got da surgury.
im 17 btw

bk to subject.
my worst memory wud b, just like at the beach. and lots of fat kids, or big boys,with beer guts but a flat chest. then look at me, a slim sporty muscular looking guy with my top on. girls wud look at me with my top on, and my mates wud say cum swim. but i didnt. i was always kinda jelious of fat people, i dont no why. i think its cuz the fat people didnt have moobs, but they shud have, and i was slim but i had moobs. i didnt understand how that workd. i work out and eat healthy but i have titz. they sit on they ass all day and eat junk but have a flat chest. i hated how people expected me to have a great body, but i felt i was lying to them. no1 eva found out bout my g, except 1 tym i was havin a showa and my otha mate the 1 with puffy nipple was brushin his teeth n i got out of shower n got changed ect. he didnt say anythn, lookd a bit then lookd down. great guy