Thanks for your reply jigupse. I completely agree with your point, and in no way mean that Indian doctors are less skilled in any way. I firmly believe that the skill of a surgeon is geographically agnostic; you will find both good and bad ones anywhere in the world. But like I said earlier, the priorities are different over here.
I am a big afficionado of bodybuilding myself, and have been into it hardcore. After years of continuous hardwork, my body still couldnt get into the perfect shape because of this horrible gyne. I finally gave up in frustration, and my body gradually emaciated over a period of 5 years. The muscularity I have today is nothing in comparison to what I used to have. I had got my 4 pack , and I was on my way to the much longed for 6 pack abs
. However thats long back now. If only I knew back then that I have a medical problem which is very common and could be treated, I could not have been more happy....
Plus I have been in the US for the last 4 years, and seeing how much emphasis is placed on good physiques over there, especially in youngsters, I have begun to do the same myself. My point is that if I do resort to something as drastic as plastic surgery, I might as well get something close to perfection.
By now, you would wonder why I didnt get the surgery done in the US itself since I was there. The problem is that I am still a college student, and most of the funds that I get come from my parents. So I do need to be more financially prudent, bcoz ultimately its their hard-owned money and not mine, and whatever I do must be with their consensus and in their physical presence. I was shocked to see that my dad even agreed to a surgery even near home!! I had been brooding for months as to how to bring up the whole topic with my parents; I was expecting a long drawn out painful and frustrating period of never-ending discussions, fruitless attempts of persuasion, and condescending assurances that I am fine the way I am. After all, it IS PLASTIC surgery!!! I am sure you would be familiar with the stigma attached to cosmetic surgeries in India. Undergoing plastic surgery over here isnt something to be proud of or "manly". "You are perfect the way bhagwan/nature made you, dont tamper with it." Gawwd, I hate that bullshit! It is only recently that the public opinion towards corrective surgery is beginning to change. In the end, my only option was to quickly find the best surgeon near home in the shortest amount of time, before my parents started to have second thoughts about this; in fact my sister was already beginning to poison their minds about how I was being an immature narcissistic kid who had lost his mind, and needed to get his priorities straight and focus on his studies and getting a job rather than frivolous things as to how good his chest looked! It is incredible at times how unsupportive and insensitive people, who are the closest to you, can get! Anyways, that is besides the point.
Coming back to my results post op. Yes, I agree the pictures from the front dont look bad at all, however it looks much much worse in person. It is a rather conspicious dent from the center towards the nipple. The flow from the center of my chest to the nipple is not a smooth contour, but rather flat -- flat ---flat ---sudden bulge from my nipple pointing downwards---and then bulge---bulge--- bulge towards the side of my ribcage. It simply looks weird rite now as if I someone went in and scooped out all the tissue he could find at just one particular spot on my chest. I am just hoping that it evens out with time, and that its the scar tissue behind my nipple and towards the side which is creating this unevenness.
Have my fingers crossed!!
By the way, whats the link of the orkut group that you mentioned? Also, where are you from? Are you done with your surgery or still thinking about it?