Should i wear a bra?

[Paa_Paw]

There is absolutely no question in my mind. You absolutely need to see a Doctor. Preferably an Endocrinologist.

The matter of a bra would be strictly a question of comfort.

What is your height and weight? How does your height compare with other males in your family?

[gotgyne]

What is your height and weight? How does your height compare with other males in your family?

Do you think of Klinefelter's syndrome?

[crash99]

no because i am not sterile and u can see i am abit fat and please tell me if i should wear a bra or not thats all nothing else likeishould talk to my parents or a doctor or any thing else pleaze

[Paa_Paw]

No one here can tell you what you should or should not wear.

I can see that you may find a good fitting bra to be comfortable, but it would make your breasts even more obvious.

The ultimate decision is yours alone.

[Whiff]

maybe you should explain how you manged to post a picture of someone else after saying 'believe me they are mine' I think you are taking the pi** mate

[Paa_Paw]

At this point, I think it is most likely that this guy is simply playing games with us. I am past taking him seriously any longer.

If the photos provided are anywhere near a fair representation of himself a bra should be the least of his worries, he should be seeing a Doctor. I suspect he "found" those pictures that he posted.

His total refusal to see a medical professional or get aid from a friend or family member indicates a lack of sincerity.

If he is so totally isolated as he would have us believe, How could he purchase a bra anyhow? He claims to have little to no freedom and (probably) no access to funds to make the purchases.

[Bman41]

You posted what I was thinking..... 

At this point, I think it is most likely that this guy is simply playing games with us. I am past taking him seriously any longer.

If the photos provided are anywhere near a fair representation of himself a bra should be the least of his worries, he should be seeing a Doctor. I suspect he "found" those pictures that he posted.

His total refusal to see a medical professional or get aid from a friend or family member indicates a lack of sincerity.

If he is so totally isolated as he would have us believe, How could he purchase a bra anyhow? He claims to have little to no freedom and (probably) no access to funds to make the purchases.

[gotgyne]

There are some inconsistencies in the postings of crash99. Anyway, it would make sense to close the thread. I'll not go to answer here anymore.

John

[TheOregonKid]

gotgyne: it is not your place to judge crash99.  If you think he is lying then so be it...no skin off your back.  However, if he is in fact telling the truth then you publishing your suspicions or recommending that his thread be deleted will do no good in supporting him, which is the focus of this forum.  Don't be a douchebag, dude

Crash99: The bad news is that your gyno is extremely severe and may be an underlying hormonal issue.  The good news is that endocronologists can give you medication to correct your hormonal balance.  Whats more, insurance may actually pay for surgery considering your level of pain and an hormonal issue(if you have one).  An endo's recommendation of surgery will bear ten times more weight than a plastic surgeons.  Convincing your insurance may be difficult considering their opposition to paying for it, but I believe it is actually possible with your case.  Consider getting a recommendation from 2 or more endo's AND sending photographs to your insurance to demonstrate the severity of your condition.  A picture is worth a thousand words.  You will likely need to be persistant and appeal to them multiple times.  If they absolutely refuse to cover it after appeals then I would have a sit down talk with your parents and beg them to pay for surgery.  If they won't then maybe a grandparent will help you.
In the interim I would get a heavyweight compression garment.  I have tried several brands and like the ones from menbreasts.com the best (note the spelling).  They are actually a cotton/lycra mix which makes them way more comfortable than the all lycra/spandex type.

I'm very sorry for the severity of your condition and I truly hope you can find a way to get surgery.

[crash99]

every one i have a confession to make these pic are really not mine i have put them temporally till i fix my own computer (not using my Friend's comp to post pic because i thought that this was emberssing ) i am so sorry i just putten them so that you would continue posting your opinions and again i am terribly sorry i hope u forgive me and i promise to show you my very real pictures please  forgive me and i hope for all of u to continue writting and posting you are opinions and for paw_paw and got gyne i am terribly sorry i home you would continue posting opinions because as all users your comments are very very helpfull no matter what they where and especially and the ones of paw_paw and got gyne my long lasting supporters and role models even if i didn't read there comments in my subject any more but i really hope you would write again and again i am sorry i am an not a nice person for doing this and i promise u real pictures and tell me if you need a prove of any kind
                                   your stupid, ass hole ,regretfull Friend crash99

[gyneco_1001]

Apology not accepted.... that's just really low and sad.

[TheOregonKid]

Yeah dude....not cool.  Time for you to do some serious soul searching.

[xoxoxoxo]

He needs to get a life..  God dude. Why waste yourtime posting others chest here?? we don't know you and you don't even need to include your face in the picture so why embarrased? Besides, all of us herehave gyne. 

[Bman41]

We appreciate you fessing up and being honest about it. 

You need to be considerate too that this is not a fun topic for anyone who has it or has a loved one with it.

Most people have a heck of a time showing off what they have in attempt to get some idea how good/bad they have it.  So posting someone else is really a slap in the face to those here. 

You can attempt to make right and fix it, some are forgiving, some may not be.  You ask us for a serious answer to your question yet won't be honest with us on what condition you have. 

[crash99]

i am soo sorry and i know that was low from me and i know i am a jerk but please i nee your help and i am now apologizing because my Conscience is hearting me so i apologized and i really need you to accept my apology after all we are a family and family members accept each others and accept their apology and please don't call me bad things please and don't say i need to get a life or other bad things and  apologize once again i am sooooo sorryi really am sorry please accept my apology
<<<< i should add that my breasts are getting bigger day by day please help me and my breasts look like the breasts in the pictures i posted realy maybe little smaller pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase help i am despret you are my only help>>>>