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Offline gyneco_1001

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Here's one...

http://www.underworks.com/990.html

Here's another

http://designveronique.com/cgi-bin/ic/dv2/640.html


Really bud, it's up to you whether or not you decide to use one... I'm just echoing what I know and what all of the doctors on this forum will tell you.

Offline js8577146

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I really appreciate everything, I can't thank you enough

but I mean he's a pretty well known gyno doctor.


I'm meeting him tomorrow and ask every possible question about it.

I'll order one just incase.


Many many thanks.

Offline gyneco_1001

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No worries, good luck with everything and keep the community updated on your progress... BTW... welcome to the 'OTHER SIDE' :)

Offline js8577146

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... welcome to the 'OTHER SIDE' :)


man, I can't f'ing believe it !!

it used to be this deep dark secret. it was over in like 2-3 days ??


I was reading a "worst gyno experiences" thread the other day

I can identify with every single one of them.


I guess nothing I'll say would really describe it.


I'll definitely post pictures and I'll definitely stick around here.

I'd really like to help, where ever I can.

Offline gyneco_1001

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I know exactly what you mean... my surgery's on Wednesday, and I too can't wait to put all those emotional scars behind me... just remember that you should never regret having gynecomastia... I believe that god doesn't make mistakes (everything happens for a reason if you're not a religious man)... having and dealing with gyno made you strong mentally as well as shaped you into being an understanding and empathic human being... and now you'll be able to carry that forward with you forever.

Offline js8577146

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good luck man ! we're here for support.


i'm not a religious man but i thought about what you just said for years and even today.


i would be a completely different person. not sure i want to be.


there was alot of misery but a big part of who i am is because of my gyno.

you're definitely right about the empathy part.


... though i can't wait to make up for lost time :)


... this would probably make for a good thread :)

Offline js8577146

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us guys probably have more in common

then probably most of the people i know.


i haven't talked about it once, in what 16 years.

not parents, not girl friends, friends, no one.

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The only ones that have known about my condition are previous girlfriends.. and that's usually after months of being intimate with a 'wifebeater' or tank and only if they question why I never take my top off... thankfully it has never been the reason for any of my break-ups (apparently I have pretty decent taste when it comes to women, lol)... I've hid it pretty well over the years.. my own parents were quite surprised that I actually had it... but it's nice to have an open forum for a subject that's so taboo in our society for people like us who have dealt with it throughout our teenage years and adult lives. Gynecomastia.org rules :)

Offline js8577146

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The way I figured is that most people who knew me long enough knew even though I also hid it well.

Of course girlfriends.


I'm sure they talked or told others.

There's no such thing as a secret.


That's just how people are, especially, women :)
« Last Edit: November 01, 2010, 04:41:00 PM by js8577146 »

Offline js8577146

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It's been about a month and a half and I'm very very very happy with the results but I still have a few month to be fully recovered.


I've always had muscles you just couldn't see them, it looks like I'm a swimmer or something now. Flat wide chest with very good definition.


If I'm not mistaken because of the lipo done there is very little chance of putting on fat here ?


I'm also considering doing a little lipo on my stomach, love handles etc. for a real great upper body.

Do you think I might be a little trigger happy and I'll endup like Michael Jackson :) ?


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By the way no pressure garment or massage.

Offline dannyboy740

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Who was your surgeon out of interest and do you have any current pics?


 

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