Author Topic: I'm sad. :(  (Read 1530 times)

Offline canadianmoobs123

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   Today my dad and I got into a (physical) fight, and he said I have moobs, and that he feels sad that he's paying for his only SON to get a breast reduction surgery. And he decided to push me. And "scoop" my breast(Put his hand underneath my breast, and "flick" it up. I was like going through a mental breakdown, so I punched him in the face. He calls the cops on me, and the cops , bias as they are, say I'm a spoiled brat, and that my dad was "disciplining me" by bullying me, and that I should feel honored he even lets me stay at his home. Oh, and guess what, they also notice my boobs. They laugh and squeeze it. 40 year old police men. Yup. My everyone there laughed, my mom, dad and sister. I have no one to talk to, so hopefully the internet will help.         P.S. If you think I'm being an over-sensitive p*ssy, I go through this crap everyday. FML

Offline Freedatlast

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That really is sad. Sorry to hear of your troubles. I just had the surgery and it is already changing my life. If possible, get it done from the best specialist you can find and move on with your life... And out of your Dad's house!

Offline xelnaga13

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@ Canadian- I once had a teacher that gave me great advice about parents. He said that there are two types of parents. The kind that are fair and loving; that you grow up and try to emulate. Or the opposite. In ladder case just work on getting out asap. I know its easy to take it personally ( specially it being family); but that kind of cruelty says a lot more about how your dad feels about himself than how he feels about you.

That being said; you cannot control your dads words or actions but you can control yours. Take some pride in your ability to deal with your dads immaturity like a man. He behaved like a toddler; and your response was not any better.

You have a forum here full of people that know hardship all too well. Ill be on later today to see how your doing ; hang in there!

Offline canadianmoobs123

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I'm to young to get a job here in Vancouver, a paper route won't pay for sh*t.  So I can't move out anywhere. Then again I would rather live in the street....

Offline xelnaga13

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Canadian what are you stats weight , height , build

Offline canadianmoobs123

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I don't know what that has to do with anything, but 170 lbs , 5'7 and overweight/chubby but not obese

Offline headheldhigh01

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1.  your age would be more to the point since it would tell us how close you are to getting out on your own ;) 

2.  i admire your balls, i might not have punched my dad, but he was never that kind of as$hole to me either, i'm amazed yours said that.  obviously he's seriously out of touch with reality, he seems to think if he talks you into thinking you don't have it, it'll just disappear (and he won't have to cough up any money).  gyne is as psychologically debilitating as cancer, but the op is cheaper.  he should consider himself lucky. 

3.  the cops sound like pricks too.  in your shoes i would have filed a charge against them with their desk sergeant for sexual harassment.  not only would they possibly lose their jobs, they would then ALSO get no end of s**t from their coworkers for feeling out boys like they had been priests instead.  try walking into a local bar with that kind of rep rap ever again  :D 
* a man is more than a body will ever tell
* if it screws up your life the same, is there really any such thing as "mild" gyne?

 

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