How do I start this without people getting the wrong impression....
Let me start here,I know in other posts I said I have accepted my moobs and in other posts I have said I have kinda become attached to them and kinda in some ways like them..But do I want them...HELL NO I dont if given a choice I would love to go back to having a manly chest but thats not going to happen.I also refuse to get the reduction surgery and here is why,I have had a few surgeries in my life,I had 2 major back surgeries a fusion between l3 and l4 then had to go back for a bone graph between L5 and S1 and one minor back surgery to put in a spinal cord stimulator,back in 1997 I had to have part of my Colin removed,I was in the hospital for more than 6 weeks,so unless I need some kind of surgery to save my life or improve my health in a big way then surgery is out.
So the way I see it I have no choice but to accept having breasts,what I cant seem to accept is how they look,the only way to describe how they look is to say they look flat and folded over,or like some one let the air out of them ( if there is a word that describes that look please let me know)and if I have no choice but to have breasts then would it make sense to at least make them look attractive to my eye,I guess that would at least make me feel a little better about them and make accepting them easier on me,I accept them because I have no choice but to,I refuse to let them bring me down.
Right now I am considering weight loss surgery,because that surgery will much improve my health I need to lose more than 100 pounds and in 10 years I have not been able to keep my weight down, so a surgery like that I am giving some real thought to being skinny and looking a lot better is just a bonus to that kind of surgery so I just might go for it..
here is where the real problem comes in,I manage to lose the 100 pounds I am looking skinny I am no longer BIG (to put it mildly),but I also know that even losing all that weight wont make my moobs go away,so I am going to be nice and skinny with flat folded over gross looking moobs (in my eyes),I thought about female breasts implants,then quickly said thats dumb then I might as well get the reduction surgery,then again I have read way more stories on how the reduction surgery did not work or the gyne came back a year or 2 later and the guy needed to spend more money for more surgery,than I have read stories on how surgery worked after the first surgery.either way no surgery for this...
Now the big question is there a way to improve the look of my moobs,IE make them look fuller stand up a little better,maybe look in the mirror and from my chin down to my waist see a nice set of boobs. (if you could ever say or think a man has nice boobs)
dont get me wrong I dont want to have a set of boobs that would make some woman jealous,I just want to have them look better than they do now.....is that possible???