So I went to my university GP last week to consult with her about my gyne. I was not expecting much because of my prior experience with my gp in my hometown were I was told they "could do nothing" for me and that "there are patients with worse conditions in waiting lists for surgery". Basically, I was made to feel bad for even consulting them about something that is the cause of so much pain and other stress-related health issues (ironically diagnosed by the same doctor) in my life.
In the doctor's office I wasn't even comfortable with spelling out what I wanted to talk to her about - I'd use vague descriptions like "enlarged chest area" hoping she'd get the hint and say gyne first. She could tell just how uncomfortable I was when it came to examining me. After the examination she told me I did indeed have gynecomastia. She then asked me what I hope could be done for me. At this point I was thinking I was about to get a lecture about how my problem compares to other people's medical problems.I told her my life can't move forward with this and I am that desperate for anything even if it was not surgery. To my utter surprise (only seconds after examination) she asked if I would want her to refer me for surgery and I instinctively blurted out a yes before I could fully digest her question. I remember her saying because I am not overweight and in good shape;she is confident I do not need to lose weight and that surgery should be the next stage.
My disbelief at the kindness,understanding,and sensitivity I was experiencing about this issue from a GP, and the possibility of finally embarking on a journey that sets me free from this burden we all share, blurred everything she said thereafter.Now, I think there's a chance I may be wrong but I seem to remember her saying she would refer me to a private clinic and I would have to book an appointment with them the following week. She did say the funding would have to be subject to approval by the local trust, but she seemed to suggest I would get it.
I guess my question is does the NHS do private clinic referrals and if anyone has had a similar experience?