Thanks Dr. Jacobs. I went back to the Doctor that did my original gyn surgery once more, and he did fat injections straight from my abdomen into the concave nipple on my right side, but that changed nothing. I have since moved and wouldn't go back to the first Doctor since I feel so discouraged and am visibly deformed now.
When you say "expert in the field" do you mean in the field of plastic surgery or do you mean specifically in the gynecomastia field?
I understand I'll have a linear scar from the space that will be harvested, I was told it would be somewhere close to where i wear my pants, and my scars (or rather dark spots from where I have fat removed at my abdomen) have never faded, so I expect a significant dark line from this next procedure, but I am DESPERATE to fix my chest now. I had the surgery to build my confidence, and the result has been the exact opposite, as I clearly look like I've had a trauma to my chest. Skin pulls tight in awkward places, one nipple folds in on itself, the other now has fat below it that needs to be contoured and both nipples now reside in a space below my pectoral muscle, so its looks terribly messy to me. My shame felt so different before my surgery, it was just the way I looked, now I look like I've had something done, and what was done has made it look worse, so the shame I have hurts so much more. If I could go back and convince myself it wasnt worth it, I would.
As far as existing scar tissue, I had massaged my chest religiously, so I dont feel any scar tissue that I can notice on my right side, and just a small amount on my left side under the nipple. I will say one thing, my nipples healed perfectly and you can barely even see a semicircle scar around either of them, so that aspect of the surgery was done well.