New Bra 38 DDD

[chestyoldman]

SideSet, that sweater looks GREAT on you! You did a great job of choosing it, and I must admit that I'm jealous!

[Busty]

 I agree with chestyoldman.  You look great in that sweater, which is clearly a woman's sweater.   Your bust looks so  womanly and full and nicely lifted and shaped   What bra are you wearing under it?  What bra are you wearing under it?

 You still have not answered about how you feel about feminine lace trim on your bras.  You seem to have embraced having a body like a woman, have you?

[SideSet]

I am wearing my Maidenform bra, the one with lace trim, under that sweater.  And, yes, I like the lace trim. 
I also like how my bras give my bust a nice lifted look.  My GF calls it youthful.  Says I am too full busted to call it perky. 
I find that I have a more polished look without all that movement on my chest and I like the rounded, uplifted shape of my bust.  I believe my tops look much better on me now that I always wear a bra whenever I go out.

[Busty]

You sound as if you think of your bust, bras, tops like a woman does.

[SideSet]

I do. And I can see that quite a number of others here have a similar point of view.

I like it when a woman compliments my breasts or the way a top looks on me and I can say thank you and compliment her back and have it come across more like two people with something in common not like male and female.

[aboywithgirls]

Side set, you are absolutely correct. I know that I have certain bras that give me a certain shape and projection and when I'm wearing them, my wife will say "you're wearing your Freya or Prima Donna aren't you. Looks good!" 
The thing is, if you've got boobs, you might as well look as good as possible. Right?

[SideSet]

Exactly, ABWG,  and, you look very good in your pictures. Full bust in some very pretty bras.

[steven618]

Looks very fitting. And can definitely tell it's female fashioned vs passable as unisex or more masculine of the feminine fashions. No denying that your breasts are undeniably large and there. I'm curious how is the reactions in being an outwardly male with such sizeable and easily noticeable breasts in the out and about scenarios. Mine continue to grow and I feel weary in the confusions people may have in seeing a man and muscular guy with protruding not pecs but breasts. This forum definitely eases some tensions but would like the insight of those who definitely can' hide the fact anymore 

[chestyoldman]

Steven618, I can't speak for anyone but myself, but I used to be just like you in being concerned that people would notice my breasts and think I was weird or a pervert. However, over time I have come to realize that VERY few people pay that much attention. Most are so caught up in their own lives or in what they are doing that they don't even notice specifics about other people unless there is something outlandish about them (like the pictures of the weird Walmart shoppers). Of course, my breasts still aren't big enough to be all that noticeable unless I wear a really tight shirt, which I don't. Not because of my breasts but because a tight shirt accentuates my belly! I'm more sensitive about having a belly than I am of having breasts! If anyone out in public has noticed that I have breasts or that I wear a bra they haven't said anything to me or let me catch them staring or laughing. If it bothers someone else that I wear a bra then that is their issue and not mine. I'm sure it helps that I'm 66 and have pretty much arrived at the point where I just really don't care that much about what other people think. Hopefully you will get to that point soon, too. You have breasts, so what? They are now a part of who you are, so unless you plan to have surgery, take care of their health, dress them however you like and just let other people deal with their own reactions. Life's too short to get all worked up about what other people think because none of us has any control over what anyone else thinks. Who knows, you might even find that you get to the point where you actually enjoy having them. That's where I am now. I would miss them if they suddenly disappeared.

[SideSet]

Chestyoldman said it perfectly.  I cannot decide whether he has a better head on his shoulders or boobs on his chest

At my size, I cannot hide I have breasts whether I go braless or wear a bra.  Braless, the swaying and jiggling of my heavy breasts and my large nipples showing through my tops is quite suggestive.  With a bra there is no such movement and my nipples are not high beaming everyone.  Of course, my bras do lift my breasts and point them straight out from me like they are designed to.  And my bras give me a nice rounded shape like they are supposed to.  This does make my breasts look a little larger, higher, fuller, rounder, but it is not like wearing a bra makes me look like I have breasts when going braless would not.

I am full busted, so I might as well embrace and make the most of it. I am sure everyone notices, but I generally do not get comments, just like busty women generally do not get comments.  The most common comment is safe and from a woman, who typically is empathizing.

Here is a photo of me in another top I like, a light sweater.  What does everyone think?

[steven618]

Thanks for the insight y'all 

I like this too better. Its more unisex and male in appearance. The other one looked not to offend but too feminine and that's fine to each their own in what styles they like 

[Busty]

Nothing male about that bust ha ha.
That top looks good on you and you look better in it wearing a bra like you are doing.  You clearly have a full bust, and your bra gives you an attractive polished look, very uplifted and rounded shape.  And your breasts are so full, did I already say that? ha ha.
Using the fruit scale, I would say you are packing melons

[steven618]

Haha melons is putting it lightly those things are huge and so well shaped and pronounced. I gotta say I hope I never get that big but if I do i hope I have the courage and lack of ability to give a F what others think and say and be comfortable in and about it as you seem to be. I live in st Louis and i hope it isn't as judgmental as it seems sometimes if it ever gets to a point of having such a full and endowed bust as yours. Very lovely shape 

[SideSet]

 Thank you, Steven and busty, for your compliments. You have seen me bare breasted, in bras, and in my tops.   I think my bras give me some lift and shaping, but you are right that my breasts are huge.   No way braless can work for me anymore and I do need to wear women's tops so as to fit my bust.   No hiding these babies, nor do I want to.

[manndy]

Chestyoldman said it perfectly.  I cannot decide whether he has a better head on his shoulders or boobs on his chest

At my size, I cannot hide I have breasts whether I go braless or wear a bra.  Braless, the swaying and jiggling of my heavy breasts and my large nipples showing through my tops is quite suggestive.  With a bra there is no such movement and my nipples are not high beaming everyone.  Of course, my bras do lift my breasts and point them straight out from me like they are designed to.  And my bras give me a nice rounded shape like they are supposed to.  This does make my breasts look a little larger, higher, fuller, rounder, but it is not like wearing a bra makes me look like I have breasts when going braless would not.

I am full busted, so I might as well embrace and make the most of it. I am sure everyone notices, but I generally do not get comments, just like busty women generally do not get comments.  The most common comment is safe and from a woman, who typically is empathizing.

Here is a photo of me in another top I like, a light sweater.  What does everyone think?

Love it - We have to talk!