Thank you, Steven, lovemybreasts, and busty, to answer your questions. My breasts are very noticeable regardless of whether I am wearing a bra or going braless.
In a bra, my breasts are a little more lifted, shaped, and they look a little bigger. Braless, you can see them sway and jiggle and my nipples show. I think I look better wearing a bra. So, I am more confident in a bra.
I also am more comfortable. The support is wonderful. And it is so nice not to have all that movement on my chest. Not to mention, wearing a bra eases the strain on my back. My breast tissue no longer gets sore from bounce. And the chafing of my nipples has stopped.
You are right that men's tops no longer fit me. To be full enough in the bust, they fall off my shoulders. And if they fit me in the shoulders, they are too tight to fit over my bust.
I feel best and feel I look best in tops made for my shape, which you are right is female. Attached is a picture of me in a sweater. Women's, of course.
What does everyone think?