Question A or B cups out there that wear a bra

[Athena12@]

I'm with you!  I'm with you, I'm a 38B and need a bra for support and comfort.  My breasts doesn't move around much but the weight does pull down on my chest. and causes a lot of pain.  I even wear a bra at night  most of the time.

[DW20]

I am 73yo and "only" a 36A but had enough problem  with soreness ,Tissue jumping up and down uncomfortably when running and jumping over stiles in the great outdoors when walking to consult a very sympathetic Doc who told me there were three options.
1. Stupid - his summing up of hormones.
2. Stupid and expensive - his opinion on surgery  - no doubt he might have been a little more tactful with people with folk he didn,t know quite so well.
3. Follow the advice of his female colleague
I opted for number 3.  - There is and item of clothing that women have tested and improved over many years!! It was a bit of a mental leap but with the help of a sympathetic wife of 50 yrs standing I got fitted out and have never regretted it! It is only an item of clothing,  it works and has no health adverse effects.

Should have done it years ago. I am very much a straight guy certainly not into cross dressing as generally defined, but the wife has pointed out that skirts are cooler than shorts in hot weather, ladies scarvesare more comfortable around the neck. I am circumspect about material and don't go in for flowery patterns and wear them when comfort is a consideration., Like bras the are just material, the rest is in my, or other peoples heads.
For me ..... comfort every time.
To get back to bras, I wouldn't expect my wife or 3 daughters to go braless (unless by choice) even though they are only around my size. Why should I be the only one suffering!!

[hammer]

As it is said, a bra is just a  article of clothing to support breast and it doesn't matter if those breasts are on a man or a woman! So go for it! At 73 there are far worse things that can happen that would require surgery and having breast are no big deal! I've had them all my life and at 61 I now need a "H" size cup to support them and I too have the total support from my wife and two daughters as well as my primary care physician.

I'm not a cross dresser either, however, my daughter's bought me a kilt for my 60th birthday last year to wear on the real hot days to try and prevent the rash that I always get from the heat! Problem is though I lost a bunch of weight and haven't been able to try it out! It is a very nice one called a utility kilt with tons of pockets and a tan color. I did one exchange on it but they changed a bunch to do it so I'll just wait and see when I'm done losing weight if it can be made smaller.

[littleguy]

I have several utility kilts . they are my go to in warmer weather.

[hammer]

I have several utility kilts . they are my go to in warmer weather.

They are becoming very popular from what I've been seeing and hearing!

[Johndoe1]

I am 73yo and "only" a 36A but had enough problem  with soreness ,Tissue jumping up and down uncomfortably when running and jumping over stiles in the great outdoors when walking to consult a very sympathetic Doc who told me there were three options.

I have found it doesn't matter what size or shape you are, comfort should be the driving force. Myself, I am DD to DDD depending on the bra but to look at me you couldn't tell that. But if you look at the cup size printed in my bra, you would believe that! 

[DW20]

Comfort is everything once you get your head round it. I cannot even understand the self inflicted torture of binding, though I do not criticise anyone who goes down that route.

The biggest hurdle that I found difficult was that bras that accentuated my size were actually the most comfortable . Not the appearance I was after, it was just that padded, push up styles immobilised my "girls" best and minimised my discomfort.
I am comfortable in my own skin. In reality they are my "boys" not "girls" as they are my own natural appendages. Ladies with boobs wear bras.....so do I.

Only on one occasion have I been outed - A quick statement that i was Doctor's advice rather finished the discussion. Rather hypocritical really, if it's OK to wear a bra on Doctor's advice what is wrong with anyone making the decision   for themselves?  Nothing!

Material (clothing) of any shape ultimately has no gender and ultimately says absolutely nothing about sexuality. Each individual of us is the only one who matters. Be comfortable

[hammer]

Comfort is everything once you get your head round it. I cannot even understand the self inflicted torture of binding, though I do not criticise anyone who goes down that route.

The biggest hurdle that I found difficult was that bras that accentuated my size were actually the most comfortable . Not the appearance I was after, it was just that padded, push up styles immobilised my "girls" best and minimised my discomfort.
I am comfortable in my own skin. In reality they are my "boys" not "girls" as they are my own natural appendages. Ladies with boobs wear bras.....so do I.

Only on one occasion have I been outed - A quick statement that i was Doctor's advice rather finished the discussion. Rather hypocritical really, if it's OK to wear a bra on Doctor's advice what is wrong with anyone making the decision  for themselves?  Nothing!

Material (clothing) of any shape ultimately has no gender and ultimately says absolutely nothing about sexuality. Each individual of us is the only one who matters. Be comfortable

You make some excellent points that one should remember to bring up when we have new people having trouble with acceptance!

[aboywithgirls]

I have the same issue with bras that accentuate my boobs. Those bras are usually the most comfortable. I like molded cups and underwires are a must. 

Comfort and acceptance are all that we really want. I am 100% positive that wearing a bra will not make you homosexual, a crossdresser, or transgender. If you happen to be any of the above, that's ok. A bra is a simple peice of clothing with no magical power beyond the ability to provide comfort and support. 

[Johndoe1]

The biggest hurdle that I found difficult was that bras that accentuated my size were actually the most comfortable . Not the appearance I was after, it was just that padded, push up styles immobilised my "girls" best and minimised my discomfort.
I am comfortable in my own skin. In reality they are my "boys" not "girls" as they are my own natural appendages. Ladies with boobs wear bras.....so do I.

That is true for me as well. The most comfort I get is where the bra accentuates my breasts the most. I am wide set and shallow and the more lift and pulling forward with side support a bra can do works the best for me. It took some time to get used to the look of being lifted and forward as much as I am, but I can tell a real difference in comfort and containment. With this level of support, the girls are firm and do not move and with that, the number of times I get noticed has been greatly reduced. I attribute that to no movement and it is a shape that is subconsciously recognized and doesn't seem out of place. You take a woman who goes braless and she is noticed almost constantly. She puts on a bra and no one notices. It has to with a familiar look vs a non familiar look, IMHO.

Material (clothing) of any shape ultimately has no gender and ultimately says absolutely nothing about sexuality. Each individual of us is the only one who matters. Be comfortable

I completely agree with that statement. It is society that makes clothing gender specific. I am more comfortable in a top that makes room for the bust. I don't care if its a man's top or a woman's top. That is why I stopped wearing men's undershirts and started wearing women's layering tanks under my tops. The layering tanks fit my bust and didn't pull, unlike the men's undershirt that constantly felt downward pressure on my bust all the time. It got to the point I was slouching to compensate for the pull on my bust. That had to stop, so I switched to the layering tanks and I am so much comfortable now.

[hammer]

I have the same issue with bras that accentuate my boobs. Those bras are usually the most comfortable. I like molded cups and underwires are a must.

Comfort and acceptance are all that we really want. I am 100% positive that wearing a bra will not make you homosexual, a crossdresser, or transgender. If you happen to be any of the above, that's ok. A bra is a simple peice of clothing with no magical power beyond the ability to provide comfort and support.

I guess if wearing a bra would have making any of us any of those other what ever you want to call it then by now I would either be a bear or a car, or maybe a bear driving a car! I love to spend time in my garage working with my carpenters tools or on a welding projects, and my time in the woods hunting or 4 wheeling! And by now you have all read my saying about having boobs no more makes you a woman then standing in the garage makes you a car or the woods makes you a bear!

I've been on the forum since 2011 and I've got to tell ya, we've got one heck of a great group going here! It's good to know all of you!

Bob

[Johndoe1]

I've been on the forum since 2011 and I've got to tell ya, we've got one heck of a great group going here! It's good to know all of you!

Bob

Back at you!

[hammer]

I've been on the forum since 2011 and I've got to tell ya, we've got one heck of a great group going here! It's good to know all of you!

Bob

Back at you!

Thank you

[Athena12@]

Today  I wore a new pair of support thigh highs, gender neutral shorts, loafers. bra and a short sleeve shirt and no one said a word.  I even tried a bra on at Wal-Mart and the SA didn't says anything but supportive things. I even showed  her the bra I was wearing to prove I wasn't a cross dresser  Again she was very understanding. BTW I bought the bra. I also went to the grocery start and gas station and again no one said a word.  It seem like people just don't care anymore what you wear.

[hammer]

Today  I wore a new pair of support thigh highs, gender neutral shorts, loafers. bra and a short sleeve shirt and no one said a word.  I even tried a bra on at Wal-Mart and the SA didn't says anything but supportive things. I even showed  her the bra I was wearing to prove I wasn't a cross dresser  Again she was very understanding. BTW I bought the bra. I also went to the grocery start and gas station and again no one said a word.  It seem like people just don't care anymore what you wear.

I believe that is just it! People don't care or don't notice, so we have no need to worry about it!