Jealousy

[gotgyne]

Today in the supermarket I noticed a women in her 40s, accompanied by her husband. She wore a top that showed much of her cleavage. She had large, well rounded breasts (I'd guess a 36DD). And guess what? I really got jealous. Isn't it strange?

[Parity]

Ha, not at all.  
I see a nicely shaped woman wearing a nice somewhat reveling top and wish I had the shape and confidence to pull it off.  I want mine to to be full and even also.  I just returned from my 4 mile walk and have to say I felt much better and less insecure of myself  knowing I was held in place, well shaped and balanced.  What I do wish and think you are referring to is that I wore a darker t-shirt and I passed several walking in a form fitting tank.  I wish I could do that.

[42CSurprise!]

I think that feeling of jealousy abides in the psyche of many of the men here.  We talk about wearing brassieres for comfort but eventually discover that we enjoy having breasts.  That leads me, and perhaps others here, to long for the feminine body that comes with breasts for the majority of humans.  I have breasts typical for a man... wide spread on my chest with nipples lower on my breasts than is typical for women.  I look at a curvaceous woman and definitely want what she has.  In fact, the first brassiere I put on belonged too a voluptuous neighbor who mowed the lawn in a halter top and shorts.  I was smitten by her.  I've mentioned that it was while babysitting for her daughter that I went into the parent's bedroom and searched dresser drawers until I found a brassiere to try on.  I have the feeling the images of her body are always beneath the surface when I put on a brassiere today... but alas, I will never have a body like that... except in my fantasies... which I definitely have.

I've watched videos of slender young men who documented their transition.  You can pretty much count on the fact they all opted for luscious breasts that look amazing on their slender bodies.  But that was not my journey.  So here we are... enjoying the breasts we have and wearing brassieres that display them to advantage.  That will have to do... but I'll never ignore a curvaceous woman... with a bit of longing in my heart.

[blad]

Since my teen years developing breasts, I have been jealous of girls being able to openly wear their bras and have their bra straps visible though their clothes. I have always needed to keep things camouflaged.

[Justagirl💃]

Here is me today. 

I'm not lacking in the chest, but oh do I wish I was slimmer.

Different kind of jealousy, but jealousy none the less. 

[taxmapper]

Given my current measurements I see a woman walking around with a nice chest and yeah.  I do actually.   


I found out my rib cage is actually in female proportions just in male size.  So I am a mismatch of body types.  At times I would love to hold the curvy shape.   The top shows it.  The bottom.. meh. 

[Parity]

I feel as acceptance evolves and becomes more comfortable it the fact of. So can other things come along with it. Perhaps some simply accept it, nothing more nothing less. It is what it is. While others may find themselves wondering what it would be like if they were larger.

For me, about 12-14 months ago maybe, I noticed my thoughts toward women’s breasts shifting from a more attraction to more envy of. From gyms to grocery stores and just general out and abouts. When I’d see a woman whose bustline caught my eye I’d notice a sense of inadequacy in comparison to them. It wouldn’t be a woman who’s a DD or anything. Just a noticing of how their chests look in general compared to mine.

Even more so, I see some of the guys here and feel so disappointed I don’t have what some of y’all have here. I absolutely love my chest but there’s not a lot of lying around it, that I definitely get jealous of those women and men who have a more sizable fuller bust. Nothing around gender or deeper than needs to be identity issues. I’m confident and certain in being male. But yeah, definitely get jealous and wish mine were bigger most days.

I feel that sums it up for me also.  I attended a wedding this past weekend.  All the women in nice revealing dresses and I'm having to lessen the size of mine and make myself look my best in a suit.  I would have to say I wish I could have the shape of the younger women.    What I do know is I'm still growing and they are filling out a bit more.  That said I know it's about time to get new bras and a couple more new suits to accommodate the growth. 

[Traveler]

My jealousy is mostly in clothing. While I’m jealous of the progesterone shaping of the female breast, guys clothing is simply not designed to accentuate the girls like women’s clothing does. Bras add great shape to less than perfect breasts, but I don’t have any clothes that compliment that shape. Baggy and shapeless guys clothing is all we have.

[Parity]

I do understand Tax. Having breast includes me wanting well shaped breast.  I understand completely! 
  
  Nature is taking its course.  things are filling out a bit for me.  I hope they do for you as well.  If we are designed to have Breast lets have them develop to their fullest.  

[42CSurprise!]

I was attending a 12 Step meeting on Zoom this morning, wearing a brassiere beneath a turtleneck.  I was feeling especially voluptuous, aware that with the position of the camera on my computer none of the participants, most of whom were women, couldn't see my breasts.  A women arrived late with her camera off.  She's attended the meeting before and I recall she often wore tank tops that hinted at a quite delicious bosom.  I was waiting to see if she would turn on her camera and she did.  Yes, she was wearing a tank top and on this day her camera was positioned so I could see her cleavage and the fullness of her breasts.  I did my best to follow the meeting but my eyes kept going to the small video of this woman with those wonderful breasts.  Yes, there is where jealously abides... a lovely, mature woman with voluptuous breasts.  I'll never have that... I'm still happy with my own breasts but I would love a slender woman's body to carry them... a bit more cleavage and nipples higher on the mass of each breast.  The dream that will never come true...

[Parity]

Sigh,  I know...to little to late.

What was fear has turned into acceptance.  Having them & knowing at this point I'm not having them removed I want them the best they can be.

[Parity]

That's exactly correct.  

[AlfaQ]

I do think things are changing and people are generally more accepting of diversity,  at least in the UK.  I remember being advised not to wear a purple pullover because that was a gay colour.   Now later in life I am not too concerned what people think.  Faux leather leggings are one of my favourite items because I like the way they support my legs and reduce fatigue.  I wear them a lot and most people seem unconcerned by my transgression.  If the clothing works for you wear it.  

[gotgyne]

I do wear some womens jeans and shirts. Shoes are a must because of my smaller very narrow feet. But have to be careful with color and style. Can’t have anything look to feminine or the fashion police will come after you. If we could only dress as we please without the criticism and out cry. The men’s clothing section at stores might be as large as the women’s. Like tank tops and short shorts. If we wear a tank top all of a sudden it’s a wife beater shirt. Or short shorts…wow are you gay? Even though back in the 70s that’s what men wore. How about swim trunks. In the 70s we all wore speedos. Today it’s baggy swim trunks that hang to your knees so heavy they can drown you🤣🤣

I wear short shorts (always with support or medical compression pantyhose) and I wear women's sleeveless tops with a bra. Nobody cares. It is fact, that men have more possibilities now.

But a man in a dress is very, very rare. Men in skirts are more common meanwhile. And at least in Germany there is a community of men who wear speedos and women's swimsuits.

https://skirtcafe.org/forums/


https://www.maennerbadeanzug.de/

[gotgyne]

Yeah over in that side of the world I’d imagine it’s much more freeing. Over here I don’t imagine much confrontation over it but there’d definitely be conversations amongst those who see a man in short shorts and women’s sleeveless top with bra visible that he is a few words of this and that lol.

Short shorts and women's sleeveless tops with some glimpses of a bra possible. I had thought the same, but all my visits at the supermarket in summer 2024 (this summer we moved to another European country, thus my long break here, until we got our new internet connection) were without any problems. Perhaps it is depending on how somebody behaves. I almost forgot that I wore my short shorts, pantyhose and bra and communicated with other people just normal.

Now we are living in a conservative European country and we have no problems whatsoever.