Gynecomastia Acceptance Poll

[Gyno64]

Hello everyone.

I have had a little more time lately to read through many of the posts here.

I find there's lots of different feelings regarding accepting, not accepting or Plain neutral?



So I thought I would like to run a poll to see what everyone thinks and or feels about their Gyno?



It would be (A: A Blessed Gift) (B: Neutral) Or (C: A Curse).



And state why you chose your choice and how you feel about it.



I will go first. I would have to say ( B: Neutral ). I'm still dealing with the newness of developing breasts and trying to adjust to everything that surrounds it.

I kind of like it and I kind of don't.



How do you feel?

[gotgyne]

A (a blessed gift).

I always liked the feeling to have breasts myself. Now I've got the best of both worlds.
Think of yin and yang. 

[Johndoe1]

Having developed as a teen along side girls I have gone through all three feelings. As a teen and early years as an adult trying to find who I was, it was not fun. Dating was a challenge. I thought I was cursed. Then it came when life happened and I had to live and the feeling went from cursed to neutral but starting to have to figure out how to deal with the now prominent mounds on my chest. After a while I was forced to deal with my chest to either live with them and deal with them for what they are or to go through double mastectomy surgery and deal with the cost (out of my own pocket) and recovery and the possible revision surgeries and still not have the chest I would want or just embrace what has been bestowed upon me and celebrate them for what they are. After several years of contemplation and several life experiences, I chose to embrace my non male chest and "learned to love the bomb" to paraphrase Stanley Kubrick. And life has improved because of it. It's been a challenge at times, but no worse than what women deal with when it comes to their chests. I make good clothing choices and don't worry about it. It seems to work these days. 

Today if something were to happen to my chest, I suspect I would be devastated similar to what a woman would go through. My chest is so apart of who I am now. I have always had feminine sized and shaped breasts. I have no concept of what it would be like to not have them bouncing and jiggling on my chest. Bras are just a part of life now for me to control and support my chest, the same as any woman would. It has nothing to do with gender and all about comfort and appearance. 

[Dudewithboobs]

I’d say B neutral. 

They are just there. Nothing more or less most of the time. As they’ve grown over the last year to a more unavoidable state I’ve become accustomed to their presence. I find myself doing the same thing women do in support, moisturizing and taking flax seed for breast health. If just sitting there I’ll often just cup one not for interest. it just calms me. In intimacy it’s where I try to draw focus to as it’s become the dominant erogenous zone. From habits to perspective to care to how I view them/call them. They are just there. 

[taxmapper]

A blessed.. When they first started growing i danced.  Saying 'THEY ARE FINALLY HERE!!!!"  

This because my entire life I wondered why they never grew. Now I have them.  I feel almost complete. 

[Parity]

  A...Blessed

As they fully developed, as I aged, it explained a lot in my life.  I now enjoy finding a bra for the day and feel confident wearing all day.