To show or not to show.

[Busty]

Your right.  We do show, the thing is how do we wish to show.  Or present ourselves.  Choosing the correct bra for our body, shape and how we want to be seen in the clothing of choice is key.  Its not a matter of having breast tissue but how we shape them.  Different bras for different looks and shape.  Remember we can and do control of that.

You are so right. As with women, it is not whether we will wear a bra today, but rather which bra, given how we want to present today.  What we are doing, feeling, wearing 

[Johndoe1]

My mood and activity for the day determines my bra and my bra determines my clothes. I have found that's basically the same with women as well. 

So yes, it's not will I wear a bra but which bra will I wear and that determines my clothes. 

[Parity]

My mood and activity for the day determines my bra and my bra determines my clothes. I have found that's basically the same with women as well.

So yes, it's not will I wear a bra but which bra will I wear and that determines my clothes.

I would say that is true for me also.  I pick my bra first and go from there.  That one garment is what defines my mood for the day and gives me the calm I want and need.  I have also found that it's not uncommon for me to change my attire late afternoon right down to the bra I'm wearing.  Again, setting the mood for the evening. 

[blad]

As I have stated before, I tried my first bra as a teen out of curiosity if all the comments given me at school to the effect that I needed a bra were true.

Trying a bra on for the first time as a teen and seeing my boobs as actual boobs being held in the cups was a revelation and a bit erotic for a teen. 

But I quickly began to realize there was a greater purpose for a bra beyond looking erotic for a teen to wear. I noticed I felt more comfortable and felt better about myself when wearing a bra. I began to like my breasts when they could be properly managed with a bra.

As time went on and I moved to wearing a bra full time, I could no longer imagine going about my day braless. It gives me physical comfort to contain the boobs and I feel more secure in the way I present. Most of the time I actually forget I am wearing a bra as it does its job in the background. But when I remember I do appreciate it's "hug" and it gives me an internal satisfaction that I have boobs and they look fine and feel fine in my bra.

[Justagirl💃]

I pick the entire outfit based on colours I intend to wear for two days (I wear my bra for two days).

Sometimes it's a strapless based upon the outfits chosen. 

Strange enough,  I recently bought two bras from Torrid in my normal size and style (44 DDD XO plunge push-up bras). The style of the fabric over the cups is the only difference supposaably.  I find these two fit me better than the half a dozen bras I have in the same style with different cup fabric. 

Strange how slight variations between styles,  fabric, or even manufacturing date can change the fit so drastically. 

Just shows why trying on in the store is so important. 

[Parity]

... Strange how slight variations between styles,  fabric, or even manufacturing date can change the fit so drastically.

Just shows why trying on in the store is so important.

I have three Wacoal Back Appeal Bras, two fit just right the third is slightly bigger in the cup. Not a big deal but it's there.  
Those are 40C.  Same company different style and I'm wearing a 38D.  My only one.  All different in size yet fit and comfort the same.    

[Busty]

Sister sizes 

[Johndoe1]

It's true. No two bras are exactly the same. This is due to they are hand assembled by a person. The intricate sewing required, a machine is not reliable enough. So the assembly is done by a person sitting at a sewing machine. 

Dye colors will also cause a slight difference in fit as well. Black seems to not stretch as much as other colors. It's said that's because of the amount of fabric saturation required to produce the black color is more than the rest, stiffening the fabric. 

This is why fitters recommend trying every bra on you are purchasing to be sure that specific bra fits. 

[Parity]

It's true. No two bras are exactly the same. This is due to they are hand assembled by a person. The intricate sewing required, a machine is not reliable enough. So the assembly is done by a person sitting at a sewing machine.

Dye colors will also cause a slight difference in fit as well. Black seems to not stretch as much as other colors. It's said that's because of the amount of fabric saturation required to produce the black color is more than the rest, stiffening the fabric.

This is why fitters recommend trying every bra on you are purchasing to be sure that specific bra fits.

  Glad you said that.  I know that's true.  Everyone should keep that in mind when shopping.