On a fem journey?

[Normalboobs1]

If you are, where are on the spectrum are you.
Thinking more of enjoyment of fem  things rather than transition (though  that is not excluded if you have a mind to share)
In my introduction  I have shared  fairly  extensively  where I am at

[Justagirl💃]

It's fairly understood that I live 100% as female, even though the centre requires androgen attire, everything I own is off the women's rack. 
Boobs are just part of the expected packaging.  

[Normalboobs1]

Hi Birdie
Boobs are probably  the most fun but there are plenty  of other joys if you are cool about it.

[Johndoe1]

I have no desire to transition or live as a woman. But with the feminine physical traits I do have, certain clothing cut for the feminine form just work better for me. It has nothing to do with gender and all about physical comfort. I suspect I am not alone in that feeling.

[gyne73]

I did try to transition as a woman as with long hair even with male clothes sometimes I get called "signora" (Ma'am). My facial features, voice and mannerism are female.

Social transition for me it's a "no issue", I can do it, and I lived two years as a lady; I "passed" most of the time.


I imagined going full time, but the bureaucracy to change documents in Italy is a bit weird.

Now I am on the male side, but I do like when I "fail" and get called female by strangers.

[taxmapper]

Embrace that.   

if you can pass as a female and you fell it, run with it and do not look back! 

[Not_My_Gamertag]

I feel like women have better/more options for a lot of things. I tried their yoga pants, and they are actually really comfortable, but in my opinion not as much when you have hair on your legs. Also, if you throw a pair of those on under some mesh shorts for yard work you can then put knee pads on and be a lot more breathable then if you wear pants. Also beats putting the knee pads on bare skin. :p   ...I mean I guess male ones might work too though, but I never tried them. Honestly since I can say this anonymously, I think I may have gender dysphoria. So I guess middle of the spectrum?

[Justagirl💃]

I feel like women have better/more options for a lot of things. I tried their yoga pants, and they are actually really comfortable, but in my opinion not as much when you have hair on your legs. Also, if you throw a pair of those on under some mesh shorts for yard work you can then put knee pads on and be a lot more breathable then if you wear pants. Also beats putting the knee pads on bare skin. :p  ...I mean I guess male ones might work too though, but I never tried them. Honestly since I can say this anonymously, I think I may have gender dysphoria. So I guess middle of the spectrum?

Leggings are the best invention ever!

I have to wear a knee brace in order to do walking therapy (right side weakness after a stroke). The leggings work so much better under the knee brace. Luckily,  I don't have leg hair, or body hair really at all. 

I must dress androgynous whilst attending the day-centre, but leggings have been approved due to how much better they work for me in therapy.  

"Gender dysphoria" is a bad term in my opinion.  It presents the assumption that something is wrong and needs to be addressed.  In reality,  nothing is wrong other than the fact that people should be allowed to just be themselves regardless of societal norms. 

[taxmapper]

Talk to the guys during the middle ages about leggings.  
At that time there was no flexing cloth like spandex, but they cut the cloth along the bias and that allowed for a certain amount of stretch.  For the very same reason you mention, some were thin, and others thick. 

The Medieval warm period meant that leggings were easier because the winters were not as harsh. But hose leggings were also a Godsend when the little ice age started. 

today we have spandex and lycra. Women's leggings are a blessing in so many ways to say the least, and fleeced leggings under jeans on the back of a motorcycle in late fall, winter or early spring is again a God send. 

[Parity]

Am I on a fem journey? I would say no.  I have  felt like I was never the full macho guy.  However, I liked softer things and have have worn tights/pantyhose most of my life.  Now, needing to wear a bra  has never made me feel like I was more womanly.  I do believe I fall in or on the spectrum if you will.  I believe we all fall in that spectrum somewhere.  I believe what is right for you is just that.  What is right for me is just that.  

[Normalboobs1]

Well said Parity.
We are  all there on the spectrum  somewhere.
Where we place ourselves be it a static position  or a  developing journey  towards a known  or unknown  end point is our own  business 

[WPW717]

On the spectrum… genetic mutation has caused the gynecomastia & the syndrome caused a gonadal lesions.
The lesion is resected. One step closer to the feminine side since the castration. It really does change your thought & feelings among other things.

[SGTG]

I am definitely somewhere on that spectrum. I don’t want to fully transition, but I love being fem, and wearing as much fem clothing as I can get away with. If I was younger and single I’d for sure at least be a femboi. 

[Dudewithboobs]

I don’t have any interest to transition or be feminine part time or full time. There was a time I thought I may but with time away from things I concluded it wasn’t a path that was true to me. 
That said, my body has shifted quite a bit due to hypogonadism that has been treated but unable to mitigate. 
Over the last two years my chest has become a 34C and body distribution of fat has shifted slightly enough to make men’s clothing very uncomfortable in some items. 
As a result for comfort only I wear women’s jeans and trousers, tank tops and unisex shirts with male styles but female fabrics due to skin sensitivity. 
I wouldn’t call it a fem journey at all. But think it’s important to know many of us may wear women’s clothing and see it as a valid option for comfort not a validation of identity within. Or exploration of it. 

[50/50]

Just have to go with what works and fits. My wife was the one who suggested women’s jeans because of fit. She tells me that women’s wrangler and lee jeans fit me better and look better than men’s. Just what fits your body and of course women’s clothing is typically softer and stretchier than men’s. Just like some men wear bras because they have boobs. But I will say that having a hormonal imbalance does make you think differently than when testosterone was in charge. Just like women after menopause. They are a whole different person after coming out of that ordeal. Same with us men.