This was surprising.

[WPW717]

Went to a recent acquaintance’s home to swim. There were 6 other people invited. 5 females. I changed in an extra bedroom. Others did too, taking turns. I distinctly remember placing my bra in a travel bag at the bottom & my pants & shirt over the bra.

I was the last one to change on leaving later that day. Only to find that my bra was missing. Searched under the bed & any conceivable place it could be. There weren’t many. My wallet & the money & credit cards were all there. 

Unlikely some other person mistook my bra for hers. It was buried under my other clothes at the bottom of a bag. Life’s mysteries do confound me at times. Thoughts?

[Midagemoobs2]

If you are sure you had it and put it at the bottom of the bag, I would be concerned that someone was rummaging through my belongings at all - that's wierd... let alone removing something - that even wierder.  Best of luck in sorting this out.

[blad]

Were others aware that you wore a bra? Were there visible bra marks when you went swimming along with your obvious breasts?

[WPW717]

100% positive I placed it at the bottom of my bag. 
As for anyone knowing I wear a bra, no. I have told no one concerning that facet of me. There is serious doubt anyone saw any markings or lines as I wore a rash shirt. It works as well as a gynecomastia shirt because I can’t get out of it without help. My wife provides that service. It hides the breasts well as I am very East / West with large roots.

It’s a mystery!

[Parity]

That is crazy.  It sounds like a smaller gathering of people so you must know them somewhat.  No looks or smiles from anyone?  They know and that's their game, keeping you guessing.  I have some pricey bra and would not want them missing either.  Smile and move on.

[taxmapper]

Gremlins, or fae.   They steal stuff for fun.   

The number of times I have put something down ont he table, turnaround and poof. Literally gone for hours or days. To reappear in the same spot I looked 11,342 times. 

[WPW717]

Wife has met on of the women for coffee today, another called her on the phone to discuss holsters for concealment.

No indications yet anyone is playing around with a game in mind.

We’re new in town & starting to socialize after a cross country move & Setting up a business.

So far the Tax’s fae comment stands the test of Occum’s Razor.

[oldguy]

Just returned from a 18 day trip on the West Coast.  I knew I packed everything, but couldn't find my 5TB hard drive.  At home, it was in my to go suitcase.  Haven't had an issue with a bra yet.    

[blad]

That's why I have an air tag in the cup of every bra I have.....you never know!

[Benusa2]

I hope you find it!

A funny story some might appreciate. A couple relatives went to visit a friend in the hospital. The hospitalized lady mentioned she couldn’t find her bra so they were looking for it until one of them asked her if it might be under her breast. Item found.

[WPW717]

Hey blad,

Love the idea of using air tags as nipple covers. What an image. lol

Ben… worked in hospitals as an RN for 43 years. I once found an uneaten piece of toast under a breast. Gotta wonder at times.