any1 worried about this?

[jc71]

Good advice Paa. If a guy is afraid of loosing weight because it will make his chest look worse, he can always loose the weight and wear a binder of some sort until he decided if he wants surgery. Always pays to be in your best shape before surgery anyway, may as well not let this excuse hold you back.

[Alex18]

also any one know on how to get your confidance better? i'm a pretty shy and quit guy i'll talk around my friends and stuff but once im around or girl or something i'll get red and crap and just always be there not saying much. im like that because i dont want to say something stupid or get much attention drawn to me because i dont feel like getting made fun off (im a group of friends there's one usally getting made fun of and picked on and thats me) its not really bulling or anything but i dont want to get embarresed.

The only way to do it is to just stop caring.  Really, who gives a shit what other people think?  darn em.  That's the attitude I have, and it works great

[jc71]

I 2nd that.  More than I care to admit.