Look man...ur not to bad...u need lipo...to get the excess fat around the nipple out...then the nipple itself will flatten out, they take your gland thingy out or w/e.....the surgery itself will not do u justice...it will help flatten your chest but u will not be where u want to b.If u really want change u can get it....u must work towards fullfilling your desired shape...start by watching your diet...eating protein, carbs, healthy fats...work out.....focus on turning that fat 2 muscle..start with walking.....believe me i have suffered for 5 yrs of my life...get up do something about it.....ur not a victim...Shit happens, usually from family and genes.....