What I'm Wearing Today

[Benusa2]

Birdie, that bra fits you perfectly.

[Parity]

Ben, I think that looks great.  I can see that would be comfortable and supportive yet not having the bra hardware to show. 
A nice choice for layering.  

[Justagirl💃]

Birdie, that bra fits you perfectly.

It's a bit tight on one side, but I just ordered two more today. 😉

[Johndoe1]

Ben, those tanks look good on you. I am glad you have found something that works for you. 

[Justagirl💃]

Good morning!

I'll be wearing my new 44 G with an extender (I wear a 46 F, but they didn't have one).

The extender was a 5 hook, and the bra is a 4 hook. That left one extra hook to dig into my back. I cut it off and sewed it up to make it a 4 hook. I'll try it out today.

Torrid did search online and found one style that does come in my new size and I ordered two more.

[42CSurprise!]

A man after my own heart.  When you find a brassiere whose cups take exquisite care of your breasts you'll find a way to make it work.  I use extenders on all of my Lilyette Plunge-into-comfort brassieres.  I also use straps to keep the shoulder straps from sliding down my arms.  Now putting it on would be challenging for anyone who is unable to reach behind his back to engage the hooks.  There is no engaging the clasps in front of you and twisting the brassiere around since that strap holding the shoulder straps needs to be slipped over your head WITH your arms and shoulders through the shoulder straps.  It sound like you'd need to be a contortionist but it is actually very simple.  Trying to do that with more than two hooks can become a nightmare however.  When I wear brassieres with three or more hooks I forego the shoulder strap restrainer and engage the hooks in front of me.  Then I'm one of those "girls" who needs to slip the shoulder straps in place every once in awhile.

With the silken cups shaping my breasts, the band firmly in place around my chest and the shoulder straps securely in place I feel like I'm in the most delicious embrace.  And my breasts are quite wonderful to behold.  Acceptance has definitely yielded to a much more satisfying experience.  I'm sure you feel the same Birdie...

[Justagirl💃]

Told a CNA about fixing my bra extender, and she reaches over and lifted my shirt to look at it.

Then I told her JC Penny's has bras on sale for $13.99, and she pulled her shirt down and showed me her bra saying, "I buy training bras at Walmart, no cup size."

It's nice when the girls get comfortable with you. ☺️

[Justagirl💃]

Tee and shorts today, of course with stockings as well. 
Nothing too fancy, but noticeable. 😘

When life gives you curves, flaunt them! 💃
Birdie

[AlfaQ]

I tried this one today from a brand called Lounge. It's actually a push up in a 34C and push ups  are not normally my style as they can be a bit fake.  I quite liked it as it has a smooth silhouette and it just felt really really nice. The fitter confessed that she was wearing the same style too.

[Justagirl💃]

I tried this one today from a brand called Lounge. It's actually a push up in a 34C and push ups  are not normally my style as they can be a bit fake.  I quite liked it as it has a smooth silhouette and it just felt really really nice. The fitter confessed that she was wearing the same style too.

Quite nice 😘

[42CSurprise!]

Cooler weather gives me an opportunity to wear a turtleneck again.  I know you all want to see what brassieres look like but honestly, I'm wearing one style most of the time and you've all seen multiple photos of what my breasts look like in well-filled brassiere cups.  Yes, I'm wearing a black brassiere today... one that is just about perfect.  The material in the cups can be slightly different even with the same style brassiere.  The black brassiere has cups that are like silk to the touch even when I'm wearing a knit top over it.  And this particular turtleneck which goes back over a decade, is itself incredibly silky to the touch.  I find myself often wearing this combination.  In fact, I'm about to head out for a hike at a nearby watershed.  I'm very much appreciating how luscious my breasts are... though I'll be wearing a shirt over my bosom.  But I'll know they are there...

[gotgyne]

That's not an actual photo, but a pic from July in France at a rest stop during our return trip home, drinking a phantastic coffee for the first time after several days. We've visited relatives and they prepared the coffee in the evening and microwaved it the next morning. Arghh! For this reason I preferred to drink my coffee cold during our stay.

You may notice the slight bulge at my chest area. No bra, thus my breasts sagging a little.

[blad]

That's not an actual photo, but a pic from July in France at a rest stop during our return trip home, drinking a phantastic coffee for the first time after several days. We've visited relatives and they prepared the coffee in the evening and microwaved it the next morning. Arghh! For this reason I preferred to drink my coffee cold during our stay.

You may notice the slight bulge at my chest area. No bra, thus my breasts sagging a little.

Sorry you were braless at the time, I am assuming you would rather be wearing one? I was in France for two months last fall, and wore my bra daily as usual. I found the coffee in general in France to be second rate to Italy while being far more expensive.

[gotgyne]

Sorry you were braless at the time, I am assuming you would rather be wearing one? I was in France for two months last fall, and wore my bra daily as usual. I found the coffee in general in France to be second rate to Italy while being far more expensive.

Blad, thank you for your comment.

Yes, I'd have preferred wearing a bra. The 900 kilometres (560 miles) trip by car to France without a bra put a lot of strain on my upper back, and yet more since I have shoulder and upper back problems anyway.

But there were two reasons I had to abstain from a bra, my wife who doesn't like it and even more my French cousin and his wife. For them a man is a man and a woman is a woman and there is absolutely nothing in between. They know me for a long time with my compression pantyhose with shorts, since that's a medical necessity after several deep vein thromboses but if they suddenly would notice that I wear a bra also, it would be too much for them.

Many of us know this problem and don't wear a bra among their family and relatives. But I know that it's not the ideal solution.

And the coffee. You're right, Italy is the world champion in coffee making. But such a bad coffee we got at my cousin's house is horrible. He'd have enough time to make coffee in the morning, since he is retired. But instead he makes coffee in the evening and heats it up in the microwave the next morning. This is awful. Nobody ever could make me drink this.

[42CSurprise!]

Those are real my friend... yes, spread wide on your chest, as is normally the case for men.  But with an underwire brassiere caring for them, you end up with a most attractive and voluptuous expression of yourself.  What to do with this reality is a question we each need to answer for ourselves.  I'm a man living alone, so I have considerable freedom in enjoying what nature has given me.  Yes, it is wonderful to have a place to say that but I have no need for anyone else in my life to join me in this particular adventure.  I can't imagine I'll ever be wearing a brassiere when spending time with close friends, one of whom is my former wife who knows about my affection for women's lingerie.  But knowing that as an abstract thing is very different from observing it in the moment.  Even the friends who know about this... two gay men friends and one very dear woman friend, aren't inclined to celebrate with me.  So I wear a brassiere often when alone and occasionally when I'm out and about town running errands.  I love to feel the band around my chest, and the unlined brassiere cups do the most amazing things to my breasts.  I'm quite thrilled.  How in heavens name do I have such sumptuous breasts?  The term autogynephilia comes to mind... it feels accurate to my experience.

Gender identity disturbance in males is always accompanied by one of two erotic anomalies. All gender dysphoric males who are not sexually oriented toward men are instead sexually oriented toward the thought or image of themselves as women. The latter erotic (or amatory) propensity is, of course, the phenomenon labeled by Hirschfeld as automonosexualism. Because of the inconsistent history of this term, however, and its nondescriptive derivation, the writer would prefer to replace it with the term autogynephilia (“love of oneself as a woman”).

https://feministwiki.org/wiki/Autogynephilia