Paw Paw and your doctor are right. The only way to get rid of it will be with surgery. You have an assymetric case where on side is much different that the other. This is either a blessing or a problem depending on how you look at it! With surgery, you would only need to have one side operated on. But in the meantime, it makes hiding the condition much more difficult...especially when the shirt is off. What every you decide to do though, hang tough. We are all here to support each other, and every single person here knows exactly what you are going through. Many doctors post on this site as well, so you will likely get an opinion from one of them as well. That's one of the things I love about this site!