"90% of the people on this website would kill to have a chest like yours."
I don't recall being part of that survey, what was the sample? The point is that is your opinion that stands alone.
I don't see that rating or judging anyone's physique, gynaecomastia or not is helping anyone. Suggesting that this guy has BDD is not, in my opinion constructive, it only serves to potentially create fears without medical validation.
But I cannot make any comment on male mastopexy as this is not something that I read up on.
You can try and grandstand all you like, but the fact is this is a gynecomastia support site and Gynecomastia as a medical term comes from the Greek words for "women-like breasts."
Bakajin does not have woman like breasts, he does not have gynecomastia.
He does not even have the most minor of minor cases.
To try and talk surgery without stating the obvious would actually be doing him a disservice and I wont do that. I would rather tell home truths that might hit home even if this means being shot as the messenger.
It is much easier to do as you would do and much harder and far more likely to result in criticism doing what I have done. I know that I am not winning any friends by telling it how it is, but sometimes it is that way in life.
That does not make what I have done any less right and what you are doing any less wrong.
Regarding BDD what I said was;
"IF", (with "IF" being the operative word) he has anything then it is BDD because it certainly is NOT gynecomastia.
The definition of BDD Body Dismorphic disorder is;
preoccupation with an imagined or slight physical defect of one's body to the point of causing significant stress.
Certainly he might have BDD. But I suggested a therapist because it is for them to make such a diagnosis not me.
I see no reason why I cannot raise BDD given the circumstances. I certainly think it is far more reasonable to talk of BDD that to talk of gynecomastia.
As to Bakajin, If you feel the need to shoot the messenger I understand. I would much prefer to speak in terms that you would find more pleasing but I have been thinking about your best interests even if the words I have said aren’t the ones you would have most liked to hear.
Edit.
Just seen your post Bakajin.
Thanks for understanding. I am not saying anything to get at you I promise, i'd never do that.
I put loads of time in round here trying to bust a gut to help people out and if there is anything I can do no matter how small- just pm me.
And Bakajin if it makes you feel any better I am post op and my chest will never look as good as yours.
Seriously you have a physique that most people would be very proud of and that I am sure will get positive comments from most sections of society. So I would have thought your situation must relate for the most part to psychology. Which from what I can gather can be just as debilitating and require its own medical attention.
My gyne pre op.
http://photobucket.com/albums/e254/chappy100/Not brave enough to put the post op up yet but will in time. Op took 3 hours and was thought to be extensive by the surgeon.