Birdie,
I lived in rural Oregon 35 years ago.
Deschutes county, Bed to be exact. I was a bit Red then. It shows on the political map as Blue now. Bend has grown tremendously since I left, still have some family & friends there. On visiting it seems it might be a consideration, the medical community there is good too.
I would not call it ‘rural’ as I knew it but it does have a lot more to offer the modern community.
Don’t know re a Torrid, though.
I lived in Eastern Oregon before, and my family owns 1540 acres in a small town near Le Grand. People are very accepting, and when I was still in boy-mode the "guy with large breasts" was accepted without hesitations. No one batted an eye!
That is something I have never experienced here in Northwest Texas smaller communities where even in boy-mode I was confronted about my curvy figure and large breasts. Of course some of that might be due to the recent anti-trans rhetoric as of late.
Texas has already passed a "can't change your gender law" enforced at DMV that even ignores amended birth certificates and court orders. Texas DMV considers that an attempt to commit fraud. Communities are quickly passing bathroom ordinances making it in a misdemeanor to use a restroom that does not match your birth gender.
In my case I was born intersex, but gender was marked as male on that certificate. One or the other needed to be marked. I have recently petitioned to have that revisited sending ultrasound results of my uterus, and signed affidavits from several of my friends that know me. They amended my birth certificate right away to say female without a court order. Texas unfortunately will not honor my amended birth certificate.
I carry a copy of my amended birth certificate that may or may not be accepted if questioned by the police, and a DL that says male. Legally the only bathroom I can visit in my community are all-gender family restrooms that may or may not be available.
Pretty much in the state of Texas, the baby born with no penis, a deformed clitoris, and a uterus must present as male for life because a doctor decided to check the male box just because I do have testicles. I can't really used a men's room without causing a commotion, so I really have to plan my traveling around town ahead of time. It's quite frustrating.
Oregon will accept my amended birth certificate and I will be able to have matching certificate/DL.
Torrid online shopping will always be an option for me in Oregon.