What ChatGP AI Has to Say About Accepting Gynecomastia

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I thought it might be interesting to ask the AI bot integrated in Microsoft Edge about acceptance of gynecomastia.  In about ten seconds it gave me this response.  This was my questions... "How can I as a man find acceptance of my gynecomastia?"

Gynecomastia is a condition that causes enlarged breast tissue in men. It can affect men of any age, and it is not a sign of weakness or femininity. Gynecomastia can have many causes, such as hormonal changes, medication side effects, or genetic factors. However, the most important thing to remember is that gynecomastia is not your fault, and it does not define who you are as a man.

Finding acceptance of your gynecomastia can be challenging, especially in a society that often stigmatizes men who do not conform to rigid standards of masculinity. However, there are some steps you can take to cope with your condition and feel more confident about yourself. Here are some suggestions:

- Seek professional help. If your gynecomastia is causing you physical discomfort or emotional distress, you may want to consult a doctor or a therapist who can help you understand the underlying causes of your condition and offer you treatment options. Depending on your situation, you may benefit from medication, surgery, or counseling.
- Educate yourself and others. Learning more about gynecomastia can help you dispel some of the myths and misconceptions that surround it. You can also use this knowledge to educate others who may be ignorant or insensitive about your condition. By raising awareness and understanding, you can reduce the stigma and discrimination that you may face.
- Find support and community. You are not alone in your struggle with gynecomastia. There are many other men who share your experience and can offer you support and encouragement. You can find online forums, blogs, podcasts, or groups where you can connect with others who have gynecomastia and exchange stories, tips, and advice. You can also reach out to your friends and family who care about you and accept you for who you are.
- Embrace your body and yourself. Your gynecomastia is only one part of your body, and your body is only one part of yourself. You have many other qualities and attributes that make you unique and valuable as a person. Instead of focusing on what you perceive as a flaw, try to appreciate what you like about yourself and your body. You can also practice self-care activities that make you feel good, such as exercise, meditation, hobbies, or hobbies.
- Be proud of who you are. Your gynecomastia does not diminish your worth or your masculinity. You are a man who has overcome many challenges and has many strengths and talents. You deserve respect and love from yourself and others. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. Be proud of who you are and what you have achieved.

Gynecomastia can be a difficult condition to deal with, but it does not have to stop you from living a fulfilling and happy life. By finding acceptance of your gynecomastia, you can also find acceptance of yourself as a whole person. Remember that you are not alone, and that there is hope and help available for you.

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I decided to ask another question... about wearing a brassiere.  I asked... "As a man, should I wear a brassiere to deal with my gynecomastia?"

Here is the response...

Gynecomastia is a condition that causes enlarged breasts in men due to hormonal imbalance or other factors. Some men may feel self-conscious or uncomfortable about their appearance and may wonder if wearing a brassiere can help them. A brassiere is a garment that supports and shapes the breasts, usually worn by women. However, there are also bras designed specifically for men who want to wear them for various reasons. Wearing a brassiere for gynecomastia is a personal choice that depends on your preferences and needs. Some possible benefits of wearing a bra are:

- It can provide physical comfort and relief from pain or sensitivity in the breasts.
- It can reduce unwanted attention or comments from others who may notice your chest.
- It can enhance your confidence and self-esteem by making you feel more feminine or attractive.

Some possible drawbacks of wearing a bra are:

- It can be difficult to find a bra that fits well and suits your style.
- It can be expensive to buy bras and maintain them properly.
- It can cause skin irritation, sweating, or infections if the bra is too tight or not cleaned regularly.
- It can affect your relationships with others who may not understand or accept your choice.

Ultimately, the decision to wear a bra for gynecomastia is up to you. You should do what makes you happy and comfortable in your own body. You may also want to consult your doctor about other treatment options for gynecomastia, such as medication or surgery, if you are interested. Remember that you are not alone and there are many resources and support groups online that can help you cope with gynecomastia and embrace your femininity.

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I dread to think what might happen to this forum  if anyone uses AI software to reply to the last two posts. The row of all rows.
Armageddon !
Surely nobody wants to be responsible for that........I  hope

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No doubt the future of AI is fraught with potential problems, but I thought the responses to those question were much in alignment with conversations that happen on the Acceptance side of this website.  Unfortunately, these are not questions generally discussed in polite company... which is why we come to this website for support and answers to our questions.  I know my almost four years here have been crucial to my finding acceptance both of the hormonal stew that generates the breasts on my chest and for wearing the brassiere now holding them so beautifully.  All is good.

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I thought that was very interesting.  All things said I didn't find it to upsetting.  That being said I still have reservations about its future.  Does scare me a bit.

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I thought that was very interesting.  All things said I didn't find it to upsetting.  That being said I still have reservations about its future.  Does scare me a bit.

I'm having an ongoing conversation with a friend about developments in AI and we are both very concerned about where this might lead.  Those questions were my first attempt to explore how Microsoft is using the chat software they've invested in over the last few years.  It seems pretty innocuous but I know there is a much darker side.  But I fear this genie cannot be put back in the bottle.  Hopefully folks with good intentions will provide us the resources we need to counter those who would do us harm in myriad ways.

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It is remarkable how wearing a brassiere can bring comfort.  I'm not simply talking about my breasts feeling more comfortable because they're held in the cups of a brassiere, but about feeling held by both the band, straps and cups.  That the brassiere gathers and shapes my breasts, creating a pleasing appearance, seems to be part of it.  I actually HAVE breasts that fill my extended fingers and the palms of my hands.  How DID that happen?  It seems bizarre but at the same time correct... as though I should have breasts.  I understand that everything changes when I'm able to accept my circumstances and that extends far beyond the simple fact I have breasts developing on my chest.  We talk about finding women's clothing more suited to our curvaceous bodies and we talk about how our attitudes and outlook have changed.  A friend mentioned Ben Affleck's comments about this three children, two of who are girls and one a boy.  The girls are all sweetness and light while the boy grunts and runs into walls.  That is what testosterone is all about.  With a hormone stew that includes less testosterone and more estrogen, men here develop breasts, curves, diminished genitalia and libido AND a calmer, more generous demeanor.  It feels as though the breasts that fill the front of the turtleneck I'm wearing at the moment, held perfectly in the unlined, seamless cups of my minimizing brassiere are a formal announcement to the world that I'm a changed person.  I'm fine with that.  

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“I should have breasts”. Is a thing I feel I’ve come to tell myself over the last year. In the last 6-12 months I’ve come to accept sides of me I didn’t know existed or let loose of things I got so tied up about. Whether it be some items of clothing or just things I’d get upset over and now days I’m just very calm and somewhat emotional but overall calm. I can’t even recall honestly the last time I seen breasts and felt excited. It’s usually envy or a moment of wishful thinking. I used to look at my arms in the mirror when going out or getting ready and now I just look at my chest like why would I ever want to have a flatter chest. I’ve accepted I have breasts for awhile. I feel I can still somewhat get away with it if shirtless but readying the words “I should have breasts” just read so loud to me.

When the breasts decide to grow, the answer is: yes, I should have breasts. 
They wouldn't grow if it wasn't meant to be. 😉

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Perhaps you could go back to that post Dude and clean up the text so it is easier to follow.  I was able to read it and like the two responses I received, it is kind and generous... recognizing the importance of open communication and of sharing information to put the decision into context.  I'm not face with having such a conversation, at least not at the moment.  Although I have a close friendship with my former wife, since I don't at the moment feel the need to wear a brassiere every day, I chose not to wear one with her.  If that changes, I would need to have that conversation as well.  My guess is she would be supportive.  When I told her and one time that I'd done some crossdressing in the past, she said that didn't pose a problem for her.  Doubtless she is aware of my breasts.  I've even mentioned gynecomastia with her... but I haven't discussed how much I enjoy wearing a brassiere... something I do most days at home.

Hope that answer helps.

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Perhaps you could go back to that post Dude and clean up the text so it is easier to follow.  I was able to read it and like the two responses I received, it is kind and generous... recognizing the importance of open communication and of sharing information to put the decision into context.  I'm not face with having such a conversation, at least not at the moment.  Although I have a close friendship with my former wife, since I don't at the moment feel the need to wear a brassiere every day, I chose not to wear one with her.  If that changes, I would need to have that conversation as well.  My guess is she would be supportive.  When I told her and one time that I'd done some crossdressing in the past, she said that didn't pose a problem for her.  Doubtless she is aware of my breasts.  I've even mentioned gynecomastia with her... but I haven't discussed how much I enjoy wearing a brassiere... something I do most days at home.

Hope that answer helps.

In my case the gynecomastia was not a problem until it became "too big" of a problem. 

Having boobs was talked about several times and my wife was very supportive. She continued to be supportive pretty much until my chest could no longer be hidden behind baggy shirts, vests, and jackets. 

C cup was just about the time my chest became a problem, so she never was around long enough to witness me wearing a bra. She basically was done around the time I started struggling to conceal things, and people started noticing. 

I guess she couldn't see herself being married to the guy that EVERYONE knew had boobs. 
She is a very religious and conservative woman, and I was no longer fitting the preconceived mold of what's society has deemed masculine. 

I have mixed support from my children, about 50/50. 
The daughter that calls me the most, several times a day, is not only supportive but wants me to "transition". She calls my boobs "sexy", wants to do my makeup, and wants me to dress the part now. If I listened to her I would already be in heels and skirts. 🙄

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Thank you 42c it was very helpful and wow sorry for how that translated over I copy and pasted it and it was normal I didn’t preview the post and wish I would have. I just deleted it too much to try and clean up but thank you

I had to ask that question since it is important... "How can I approach my wife about my desire to wear a brassiere to deal with my gynecomastia?"  I chose a "professional" tone.  The options include professional, casual, enthusiastic, informational and funny.

Gynecomastia is a condition that causes enlarged breast tissue in men. It can be a source of discomfort and embarrassment for some men, especially if they feel that their appearance does not match their gender identity. If you are one of those men who would like to wear a brassiere to cope with your gynecomastia, you may wonder how to approach your wife about this sensitive topic. Here are some tips that may help you:

- Choose a good time and place. You want to have a calm and respectful conversation with your wife, so avoid bringing up the topic when she is busy, stressed, or distracted. Find a private and comfortable place where you can talk without interruptions or distractions.
- Be honest and open. Explain to your wife why you want to wear a brassiere and how it would make you feel more comfortable and confident. Do not hide or lie about your feelings or intentions. Be prepared to answer any questions she may have and listen to her perspective as well.
- Reassure her of your love and commitment. Your wife may feel confused, hurt, or insecure about your desire to wear a brassiere. She may wonder if you are unhappy with your marriage, your sexuality, or your gender identity. Make sure to reassure her that you love her and that you are not planning to change anything else about yourself or your relationship. Tell her that you value her support and understanding and that you want to share this part of yourself with her.
- Respect her feelings and boundaries. Your wife may need some time and space to process your request and decide how she feels about it. Do not pressure or coerce her into accepting or approving your decision. Respect her feelings and boundaries and let her know that you are willing to compromise and work together to find a solution that works for both of you.

I decided to try the "funny" response as well and got this...

I know this is a delicate topic, but I have something to confess. I have been suffering from gynecomastia for a while now, and it makes me feel very uncomfortable and self-conscious. I have tried different treatments, but nothing seems to work. So I decided to take matters into my own hands and buy a brassiere that fits me well and supports my chest. I hope you don't think less of me for this, but I really need your understanding and acceptance. I love you very much, and I don't want this to affect our relationship. Please don't laugh or judge me, but can I show you my new bra?

I don't know if your wife would laugh... but... who knows.  (This was done using Microsoft Edge and their browser Bing.  It is simple and pretty straight forward.)

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I prefer real people with real (often flawed) intelligence.
No substitute, by definition, is ever as  good as the real deal
I will always settle for real coffee, real meat, real flowers etc etc
I also prefer real boobs..... even on me!
Just love them. 

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I'm a fan of being real as well... AND I'm aware not all of us have good communication skills... simple things like being able to actually listen to what someone else is saying.  Honest conversation happens when both parties feel they are heard.  So listening, empathy, patience and kindness will go a long way in any conversation.  A good friend is one who is willing to listen to what we have to say... and then to give us honest feedback about what might be blind spots for us.  That feels like what we're doing here... often with a playful dimension... simply because for most of us, having breasts develop on our chests has been a source of great angst, even shame.  So we acknowledge reality and then muse about brassieres and how best to present our bosom to the rest of the world.

AI won't solve any of our problems but it is fun to play with it.  It seems to me the answers to questions I've raised have been responsive and may be useful to some among us.  At the very least they can prompt conversations like this...

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It is only fun but God help us (literally) when, not if, social media idiots, and politicians etc start thinking it is the infallible answer to every question 

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It is only fun but God help us (literally) when, not if, social media idiots, and politicians etc start thinking it is the infallible answer to every question

And they will but they've already done that through their view of Christianity.  I guess if you add religious bigotry to AI empowered solutions we could be in for some tough times ahead.  I've been reading about indigenous views of gender which were quite expansive UNTIL Christian missionaries arrived to set them straight.  We wouldn't want them to go to hell after all... like those parents of transgendered kids who actually listen to them.