Puff,
Fluid coming out of the nipple is the first thing that alerted me to my situation. I was sitting at the computer without my shirt on and a drop of fluid hit my stomach...it freaked me out trying to figure out how a bead of sweat could hit my stomach coming from my armpit...and then it got 100 times worse when I figured out the fluid came from my nipple.
This was the summer of 1999. I was 27 y/o, 6'1 and 155 lbs. and tired of being skinny, so I totally immersed myself with bodybuilding. My goal was to hit 200 lbs with no more than 6% bodyfat in 8 months. After 3.5 months I was up to 190 lbs...naturally.
I then started taking Accutane (acne medication) for 6 months; this stuff totally killed my energy level and left me feeling tired all the time. After 6 months, I had regressed to 185 lbs; all the while still busting my ass in the gym. So out of frustration, I tried 6 weeks of the prohormone Nor-Androstenedione. This gave me my energy level back and the gains resumed -- up to 198 lbs. I then took a month off from lifting.
The fluid thing happened 7 weeks after stopping the Nor-Androstenedione. I did some quick research on the subject and found out that the fluid was part of the aromatization process of excess testosterone to estrogen...it's basically water. My research showed that there was a good chance the process would reverse itself naturally. I kept my fingers crossed that it would...it didn't, and it left me with noticeable gyno on both sides after about 6 months.
This then started to systematically affect every aspect of my life in a negative manner. I started obsessing over the condition, and although I was still muscular and hiding it well, it turned into a mental monster for me.
I eventually stopped working out totally in the fall of 2000 due to the paranoia I was experiencing. With each passing year, the situation got a bit worse as the 'protective' layer of muscle I had built up slowly melted off (exposing the gyno glands under my nipples), and the mental anxiety deepened. I finally realized I would have to do something about it -- meaning surgery -- in late 2002...but still procrastinated about the inconvenience and the cost of surgery until just last week.
After visiting Dr. Bermant and getting the procedure done, I am amazed at how long I put this off. I missed out on so many things by altering my lifestyle to hide the gyno. I'm looking forward to getting my life back.
Anyway, that's a long way saying 'Don't put off taking care of this.' If you aren't certain what caused your condition (as I was mine), then I would certainly make every effort to get to the bottom of it.