Author Topic: Im scared to schedule a consultation for some reason  (Read 7114 times)

Offline orlando.abascal

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No matter what I do I just cant seem to get myself to call. Can someone tell me like what it entails, and what to say and stuff?

Offline Grandpa Bambu

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Surgery: February 16, 2005. - Toronto, Ontario Canada.
Surgeon: Dr. John Craig Fielding   M.D.   F.R.C.S. (C) (416.766.8890)
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Offline orlando.abascal

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Offline Dave_8

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I was scared my first consult. First you ask the doc to look for any sign of gyne (which you already have, but just do it to start the process). Then he'll take a look at you, then examine your chest, then start explaing to you what it is and how he will do the surgery. Finally you ask him some questions. This worked for me.
If you have gyne, dont expect not be laughed at.

Just like if you walk into a locker room, you're gonna see some hairy asses and dicks.

Unfortunately for me, both have occured in my life way too many times.

Offline orlando.abascal

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Haha im talking about more like what do I say to schedule one lie I feel like i'll go braindead. Oh god the thought of having him see me shirtless is terrifying nobody has in 10 years.

Offline Grandpa Bambu

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Haha im talking about more like what do I say to schedule one lie I feel like i'll go braindead. Oh god the thought of having him see me shirtless is terrifying nobody has in 10 years.

Yeah... one of the most difficult things to do in the surgery ordeal is to make 'The Call'... It can be a terrifying experience for sure... However, you say to yourself... am I going to live like this the rest of my life or am I going to suck-it-up and make the call...

Keep in mind that a PS is a professional... He/she will not laugh at you. He/she is there to help you. An experienced PS has seen many G cases... It's nothing new to them.

When you make 'The Call'...  just say that you want to schedule a consultation for Gynecomastia. I know how embarrassing it is to make the call but hey... it's something that you just have to do my man. You cannot continue living your life under the G curse...

JUST DO IT!!!

GB...


Offline Dave_8

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Oh well I don't know. Just ask if you can schedule an appointment to get your breast taken off. Or someother way that sounds more realistic.

Offline cecly

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Plastic surgeons deal with these sort of cases every day, they will treat your condition with strict confidentiality.

Once you have done it, it's over. Make that call, if the office asks what the consultation is about, you are allowed to say "I'd rather not say", they wont hassle you ;).

By the way, since getting the proceedure and getting really fit, people often say, "wow, I'd love to have your body", which is when I usually chime in with, "well, would you believe ...".

Offline Grandpa Bambu

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Make that call, if the office asks what the consultation is about, you are allowed to say "I'd rather not say", they wont hassle you ;).

For anyone making "The Call" to Doc Fielding...  you have to tell them that the consult is for Gynecomastia. If you don't, you will need a referral from your GP. If you mention Gynecomastia, they will take you directly without a referral...

GB...

Offline orlando.abascal

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I'm an idiot. I called and said I have the wrong number this is like despairing as hell, and I know they won't even be shocked or "OMG" or anything.

Offline Grandpa Bambu

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Don't worry dude... try again.  ;)

GB...

Offline Ready for a change

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My mom made my apt but m only 17 lol

Offline joltera

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never was hard for me I am so eager to get rid of this.
f*ck gyne

Offline Grandpa Bambu

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I was the same way dude, I never gave it a second thought. As soon as I found out that my m(o)(o)bs could be fixed, I made 'The Call'.

However, not everyone is the same. For some, making the call is much more difficult...

GB...

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I'm an idiot. I called and said I have the wrong number this is like despairing as hell, and I know they won't even be shocked or "OMG" or anything.

Hey dude, if you want, I could make the call for you. Seriously...

PM me if you're interested...

GB...


 

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