If we are looking at this from a strictly psychological standpoint, then perhaps.
But understand this part of things:
When quite young I looked to women as a role model, not men.
The boy aspect came in because when I was still in elementary school my mother had to get counseling for alcoholism and was away for over three months. During that time my grandmother came in to fill that gap.
She was very Victorian (post Victorian and prudish Edwardian in this instance) and I was prohibited from wearing jeans to school. (long story).
That time frame installed bit of fear in me that adults called the shots and whatever they said, went.
Because I was "boy" I was expected to be "boy". Yet couldn't escape the idea that there was something different.
Many many instances I looked down, saw the male package and wondered what the hell was it doing there.
At a young age I was fascinated with the idea of a smooth crotch. Not a bulge. Then as time progressed, the feelings I thought were normal and everyone else had the same views/feelings.
Sexually attracted to girls and women, the programming for the male side is defiantly there. But the underlaying aspect of "Not Right" has always been there.
Today for example, everything except my polo shirt is women's.. And I've been complemented several times todays on looks. (Unusual at times).
But I am also slowly letting out a more feminine look as well.
The structure for my identity and self expression was always rigid and intended to be what was a stubborn loyalty to a fairly conservative ideal.
with a strong stoic Male Persona, but underneath this side screaming to come out as female, but my body, face and overall looks scream male.
This in our society may evolve, or pass. We have a world war to fight unfortunately and on the other end of things we'll find out if this current process holds.