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Offline Traveler

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That’s so cool Gino. Acceptance at home is almost as important as being self accepting. 

Offline curiousk

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I agree.   I probably could have started wearing a bra on a daily basis at 11-12 years old.  I started wearing a bra daily about 6 years ago and should have done it sooner.  The movement of my breasts are controlled and contained.  Plus, I have a number of options for t shirts, sweaters, etc.  I also love the way my breasts look and I wouldn’t change a thing. 

Offline Justagirl💃

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Day-centre says, "the US is no longer 'trans-friendly' and I should really think about returning to compression vests again."

That I need to work harder at "concealment."

Sorry, not happening. 🤔
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Doesnt work that way....  

they are seriously misreading all the political aspects.. 



Offline Parity

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Just wear a tank or shirt like many men do and stick a cigar in your mouth.  Are compression vests worn by all men?

That alone states they realize you have a womanly chest.  Women wear bras....  I'm bothered by this as well.

  Okay.  That has been an official executive order. Two sexes, male and female.  We all know that's not true.  Many others do as well in the medical community. I do feel we are going backwards in what small gains have been made. I feel there are many dark days ahead for many in the LGBTQ community.  As well as people like me.  Like you. Living with nature gave us.

  We all knew this would happen in this second term.  I'm not surprised a bit.  I don't like it a bit either.

Offline Parity

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Doesnt work that way.... 

they are seriously misreading all the political aspects..
Not sure exactly you are trying to say.  Not trying to interpret for you, and intend no disrespect.

From what Birdie is saying the day centers stating is on Birdies birth certificate it states male.  The centers policy states a dress code for men and women.  The law of the land is now there are only two sexes. M & F.  Birdie is and must dress accordingly.  M.

  Again, doesn't make it right.

Offline AlfaQ

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Since when did clothes belong to any gender?   So all women must only wear skirts and men wear trousers?   Here in Scotland men can freely wear skirts.  You are free to wear what you want. 

Offline Johndoe1

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"the US is no longer 'trans-friendly' ".
I don't believe that, not one bit. And that EO applies to the federal government. I don't see California or New York changing.

My personal opinion is the pendulum has swung too far, too fast and it's correcting back towards the center, where it should have been be all along. I am not changing anything I am doing.

I get the sports thing. Females are physically getting hurt. Can't have that. I don't know what the answer is but you can't have people getting physically hurt, no matter the gender. Just my opinion. 
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Offline Justagirl💃

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Doesnt work that way.... 

they are seriously misreading all the political aspects..
Not sure exactly you are trying to say.  Not trying to interpret for you, and intend no disrespect.

From what Birdie is saying the day centers stating is on Birdies birth certificate it states male.  The centers policy states a dress code for men and women.  The law of the land is now there are only two sexes. M & F.  Birdie is and must dress accordingly.  M.

  Again, doesn't make it right.
Actually my birth certificate says "female" after I petitioned to have it revisited and sent in medical records and affidavits. 
However the day-centre refuses to honour my amended certificate. They only hold by my old certificate in file. 

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Day-centre says, "the US is no longer 'trans-friendly' and I should really think about returning to compression vests again."

That I need to work harder at "concealment."

Sorry, not happening. 🤔
The point is, you are not "trans", you are a woman. You'd need an ID from another federal state of the U.S, that displays your sex as female.
A bra is just an article of clothing for people with breasts.

Offline Justagirl💃

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Day-centre says, "the US is no longer 'trans-friendly' and I should really think about returning to compression vests again."

That I need to work harder at "concealment."

Sorry, not happening. 🤔
The point is, you are not "trans", you are a woman. You'd need an ID from another federal state of the U.S, that displays your sex as female.
Hopefully soon to be Oregon

Offline WPW717

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Oh no,

I have to rethink my gender and sex      now  that I     switched    from  M  to  E (unuch)
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Offline taxmapper

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Put me in the "it' catagory that I will hold with a badge of honor. 

As for what I said, the way the EO is structured as pointed out is only on the Fed. level, for one and secondly locals who are stupid enough to sound like that are in for a discrimination suite. 


its just stupid talk

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As a woman, I can say that I am a woman, just one of transgender experience. I am not a victim. I am living as a woman. My birth certificate and passport and Florida drivers license all say F or Female. After relocating here from the northeast, some people who I've let know that I didn't always live as as woman. Others just simply accept and treat me as a woman. I don't worry about politics or what bathroom to use. I just simply live and let live. I experience the same in return. 

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After relocating here from the northeast, 
Congratulations! 😀


 

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