Author Topic: To show or not to show.  (Read 73 times)

Offline Normalboobs1

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Bras: Do you conceal, show, or dont give a damn.
Personally  for me it was  a 2yr journey   to travel from concealment  to not caring less.
They latter was always  my wish...it was only the bit between my ears that made it take so long  inspite of a supportive, wife  actually egging me on  .... not trying to push me, more a case of knowing  where I wanted to be and pulling me along.
How was it fir you?

Online taxmapper

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Quiet for me.   I was not overly concerned about if they showed, but now they have grown enough that they are part of my persona. Expected in fact. 

Offline Traveler

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I’m in the “I don’t care if they notice” phase. By the same token, I don’t flaunt either and try to dress appropriately for the situation. Too big to completely hide but not so big that I can’t play the girls down a bit so they fall into the “no one really notices” category.
Tired of being uncomfortable so other people are comfortable.

Offline blad

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My bumps are not going away with or without a bra. They probably actually look better with a bra on. 

I have worn pattern button down shirts for years, flannel in the winter and short sleeve in the summer, which are very confident in not showing bra strap outlines and I tend not to even think about my bra when I am out and about. I don't need to be a topic in the neighborhood. 

If I am going to be in a close contact get together I wear a racer back pull over bra to greatly minimize anyone feeling a bra strap with a hug or pat on the back. Awkward situations will not add to my quality of life, and again this allows me to not think about my bra during these gatherings and to just enjoy the benefits of a bra.

I would be out of my comfort zone in any kind of a tee shirt, the straps will either just plane show through or the outlines visible as you move. Anyone who says their bra does not show in a tee needs to check again.
If the bra fits, wear it.

Offline Not_My_Gamertag

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Theres 3 people (one being my gf) I feel comfortable wearing a bra and t-shirt around so far.
In the general public I layer bra-shirt-big ass Carhartt coat. I have started keeping it open depending on how confident I'm feeling, I guess.
I used to do bra-undershirt-T-shirt-hoodie-big ass Carhartt coat. (ofc sometimes ditching either the coat or hoodie)

Offline Normalboobs1

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Keep them coming
Openness helps everyone  here whatever  their views. 
Just be polite and tolerant
« Last Edit: Today at 12:34:54 PM by Normalboobs1 »

Offline bobb

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I usually wear a shirt over a tee shirt whether i'm wearing a bra or not because everything shows if i'm just in a tee.

Offline oldguy

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Definitely conceal.  Summers are more difficult to make it work.

Offline AlfaQ

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I am now nearly  in my third year of daily bra wear and this summer I  was definitely less concerned about bra show nearly to the point of not caring.   In my experience people notice MUCH less than you think.  Women are most likely to notice and as I found out when a young female noticed my shoulder straps during a medical appointment.  She just hesitated  smiled and carried on.   Life is short and just be who you are.  If anything our situation should engender sympathy and not ridicule. 

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I don't try and hide but I also don't flaunt. It doesn't matter whether I am wearing a bra or not. My chest doesn't appear flat. If they show, they show but I do try and be modest in the way women do. Arm holes are tight to pits so cup nor band show. I keep necklines within reason so straps don't show. I have always thought that women should not expose any part of their bra. It doesn't look polished and has the connotation of not caring about one's appearance. I follow the same rules in my bra wearing. My bra is my business and is not for public consumption.
Womanhood is not defined by breasts, and breasts are not indicative of womanhood. - Melissa Fabello

Online WPW717

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Traveler’s statement matches me the closest.
Regards, Bob


 

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