Author Topic: To show or not to show.  (Read 1635 times)

Offline Parity

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tryingtoaccept,  At that size your comfort level without wearing a bra most of the time has to be just fine.  A little bit of nipple showing isn't uncommon.  Do what makes you and your wife comfortable.  In the end that's what we are all trying to do.  Be comfortable. 

Offline Gyno64

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tryingtoaccept:
I'm pretty much in the same boat now.
  It's now not hard for my breasts be noticed. But yet still small enough to be manageable depending on how I dress. Going out in public areas without a shirt sadly is over for me! At this point in time. My breast growth has stabilized at a full B cup. I'm not very interested in surgery at this point. So If I continue to go into more growth spurts I'm willing to accept the fact I will probably will need to start wearing a bra on a daily basis. Just will take me some tine to conform to is all.      


Offline Dudewithboobs

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Conforming can be tough. It took me awhile to realize a bra was needed most days to all days if I wanted to be comfortable. Once I reached a full C the upper outer areas of my breasts would just be sore from tugging and gravity of the lower breasts. And once under bust developed more the movement became more annoying than not and projection more visible than not. Pullovers have been the go to for comfort support and concealing allowing me to maintain confidence and support and compression without smashing to not worry much about public settings. 

Offline Justagirl💃

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I was on the bus once and looked over to see a well tanned gentleman with very large breasts enjoying a beer on his porch shirtless. Apparently not a care in the world. Not exactly the 'GI Joe' figure that society likes to portray.  

Comfort levels are based off our own perception of ourselves related to societal norms.  If we disregard the societal norms,  we have ever increasing comfort zones. 
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Offline Gyno64

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The fact that it's winter time now around here really helps with conditioning my self with accepting. I can wear this little bralette you see me in here and throw on a top shirt and or a coat when I go out in public and nobody is the wiser. I'll just have see how I'll feel when warm weather comes around. I'm just not sure yet. This bralette is sure much more comfortable than a smashing compression top. And better for my breast tissue health too I'm sure.

Offline Traveler

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I’ll wear a bralette most days to work without having a problem. Winter lets me wear my underwired bras more often.
Tired of being uncomfortable so other people are comfortable.

Offline blad

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We can't really hide our bumps, particularly in the summer. But I do want to hide obvious signs of a bra. To that end I have been comfortable in a pattern button down shirt where I do not even think about it when out in public. Even in summer with a light weight pattern short sleeve I feel completely confident. I have never understood those who try to wear a t-shirt. Even if it is not overly tight or semi see through, the bra strap pattern is gong to show through at times as one moves about. Just observe any woman. 

It is only the hug or pat on the back that I feel is more of a give away for me. When I will be in close contact with family or friends I put on a pull over racer back that I feel will be least obvious to touch.
If the bra fits, wear it.


 

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