Hello outertrial
I think your experience is probably quite similar for many of us here. As a medical rep, I deal with the NHS everyday and so from the start, I knew the NHS was not the best route to pursue for surgery for gynaecomastia.
Most cases of this condition are not pathological, ie. caused by something going wrong by the body such as hypogonadism. Most men have some degree of breast tissue before we are born, so it it deemed to be 'normal'. Unfortunately, some guys have more than others and it can become a bigger problem at adolescence as hormones ravage our bodies. It's highly unlikely anyone would be offered surgery until after adolescence as for many guys, any breast growth can go away as our hormones settle down.
So is treatment of gynaecomastia cosmetic or corrective? No one would refuse dental treatment to a child with slightly deformed, yet 'normal' teeth. This is a debate without any real conclusion. I don't think it is unreasonable for the NHS to ensure you are of the correct weight before surgery. I was overweight two years ago and lost four stones in two years to make absolutely sure it was not just fat-related and to prove to myself that I had taken every reasonable step before committing to surgery. As I am sure you agree, nothing would be more frustrating for other people in the queue for surgery than waiting behind someone getting treatment because they had spent all their lives eating pies! The NHS has limited resources and where possible has to be spent on the most needy - which I know does not always happen. I don't know the figures, but a certain percentage of heart patients die on the waiting list for surgery. This is an ethical discussion I am not going to get into, but personally, I would not want to explain why my surgery is more important than the next guy's triple-heart bypass surgery.
So treating gynaecomastia is very much down to personal and professional opinion. If you can convince your GP that you have significant glandular tissue present and it is affecting your daily life on a psychological level, then you are in with a good chance for referral.
My case of gynaecomastia was quite obvious. My GP was very understanding of how it was affecting me, such as only wearing certain clothing, in a certain way. Walking around with hunched shoulders and dealing with people's comments. She was happy to support me through treatment through the NHS. But from the start, I decided not to use the NHS for surgery.
If I had, I would have been denied the choice of surgeon. The chances are I would eventually have been operated by either a general surgeon or a plastic surgeon that probably had a huge caseload of female mastectomies, reductions and augmentations, but very few male chest reduction procedures to boast.
As far as I was concerned, this treatment had to be right first time. It's a real shame that surgery is not more freely available, but even if it was, for me at least, it would have to come down to who was doing the surgery.
I am fortunate that my GP was very understanding and given my age (32) and knowledge of the subject area, she knew I was doing this because I really, really wanted it and that I had done everything I could without depending on the NHS alone to sort it out. My GP insisted that she was there for any post-operative needs.
So whilst my experience with the NHS has been limited for this issue, I hope that gives you some information you can benefit from.
Cheers.