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Dudewithboobs

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Definitely agree that after some time the umm wtf would fade in to mehh just a dude in a bra. I’d imagine if I ever did change and had a bra on the volume of padding in the bra while not dramatic would certainly show why. 
I have a fair amount of muscle and it’s pretty clear I workout regularly. I wouldn’t imagine anyone would have some ignorant view of this guys a perv but it is a more conservative gym so I take that in. And my wife and I are very involved in our city and just don’t care to risk the whispers. Especially with social media being as it is now days. 
In our gym it’s the same, sauna is usually occupied by all men usually older or middle aged and in a towel which u presume isn’t with swimming shorts under unless they are planning to swim after. There’s a hot tub in the area as well where most men get in and out undressed and I just avoid it. It makes me a bit uncomfortable and it is primarily older men. 
Being older men typically the breast development from age and lowered t is common but me being in my late 30s it makes me a bit more conscious especially by their shape, volume and current size of things. It just isn’t normal for someone my age and makes me more hyper aware of the possible stares I’d rather avoid. On a beach 3000 miles away no worries. At a gym 5 min away. Yeah lol. But I am becoming more and more secure in wearing a bra to both my gyms and that’s a good feeling 

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Definitely agree that after some time the umm wtf would fade in to mehh just a dude in a bra. I’d imagine if I ever did change and had a bra on the volume of padding in the bra while not dramatic would certainly show why.
I have a fair amount of muscle and it’s pretty clear I workout regularly. I wouldn’t imagine anyone would have some ignorant view of this guys a perv but it is a more conservative gym so I take that in. And my wife and I are very involved in our city and just don’t care to risk the whispers. Especially with social media being as it is now days.
In our gym it’s the same, sauna is usually occupied by all men usually older or middle aged and in a towel which u presume isn’t with swimming shorts under unless they are planning to swim after. There’s a hot tub in the area as well where most men get in and out undressed and I just avoid it. It makes me a bit uncomfortable and it is primarily older men.
Being older men typically the breast development from age and lowered t is common but me being in my late 30s it makes me a bit more conscious especially by their shape, volume and current size of things. It just isn’t normal for someone my age and makes me more hyper aware of the possible stares I’d rather avoid. On a beach 3000 miles away no worries. At a gym 5 min away. Yeah lol. But I am becoming more and more secure in wearing a bra to both my gyms and that’s a good feeling
You're right that it might not be the norm, but as we read in the forum, you're not the only young man with breasts. Think of the many teenagers who develop them and get bullied or ridiculed at school. If you and all other young men avoid such situations as with the hot tub, it never becomes normal.

And you're right, in old men like me, it is quite normal meanwhile and only very few people stare at my breasts if I am swimming or in the sauna cabin. Only we can make it normal.
A bra is just an article of clothing for people with breasts.

Dudewithboobs

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Appreciate it. I almost envy the heck out of the youth who have to deal with it and older folks who have to adjust to it. I’d hate being a teenager and wondering wtf is going on and dealing with the ridicule it comes with. But at least the people they date and find to marry eventually are well aware of their breasts and need for support and it isn’t a shock in the least. Same with older men. Being in the middle I feel it’s just making me a centerpiece of that guys either taking steroids or estrogen cause that doesn’t just happen. I have found several moments with friends and colleagues over the years to insert a educational moment of gynecomastia in hopes it causes a what’s that and Google searches for later to help normalize that it is a real thing and not byproduct of someome causing it. 
And perhaps I’ll take the tip of simply going to the hot tub and sauna and see what happens. And I do think it would remove issue if being confident and nonchalant and relaxed and simply be normal about it to make others know it’s normal even if not often seen. Luckily I don’t think my breasts are too visible I could be wrong but perhaps I’m overthinking the concern of areas like that. 


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I first began developing breasts at 61, right after I retired.  We have a condo in Mazatlan, which we visit for the month of February.  A nice break from the cold and snow where we live.  While my breasts were growing, they were passable for many years.  The last two years, two knee replacements prevented us from being there.  Instead, we rent places on the coast and walk the beach.  I don't any longer feel comfortable going topless.  When I visit the pool, I keep my shirt on.  Occasionally, someone will comment on my swimming with a top on.  I explain that I'm protecting my skin from the sun.  Which makes total sense, since I've had a few pre-cancerious spots removed.

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Appreciate it. I almost envy the heck out of the youth who have to deal with it and older folks who have to adjust to it. I’d hate being a teenager and wondering wtf is going on and dealing with the ridicule it comes with. But at least the people they date and find to marry eventually are well aware of their breasts and need for support and it isn’t a shock in the least. 
I already had boobs when I dated my wife to be, having developed in my early teens. She turned out to be a gem and has supported me wearing bras.

But no it is not easy trying to get out there and make relationships while displaying a set of boobs.....I don't think it is what most girls are looking for. It definitely degrades ones confidence getting into a relationship. 
If the bra fits, wear it.

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Still seeping milk. I wonder how long at takes to dry up?
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Youve got the milk... Wow...       

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Lactating much worse than I was before!

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How long have you been lactating and have you lactate before?
Womanhood is not defined by breasts, and breasts are not indicative of womanhood. - Melissa Fabello

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How long have you been lactating and have you lactate before?
About a week, and this is the first time. 😳

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Your going full on girl there.....   i say cool!   prob. a bit concerning in some ways, but hey...   

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Several years after being diagnosed with Gyne, My wife and I went to a bra fitting and several bras places.  It was awkward as she preferred to stay out while the fitting was taking place.

After my second Mammogram, this was much better.

We purchased a number of bras which really didn't work over the years.  Mostly function over style.  While going through my bedroom drawers, I found one that was too big for me, way back when.  

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Good job you kept it as it now fits very nicely.  

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oldguy, that bra looks good on you. What size is it?

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