You're right... it's the roller-coaster! - I'll just be glad when it starts going uphill again!!
Might come as a shock to some to hear I'm not dancing around the place topless on cloud 9 - but I'd be telling lies if I said I was - and there is no point me documenting this whole process if I'm not honest about it and don't record the lows as well as the highs is there?
What is annoying is that the left side is pretty good, and the right side isn't. Of course, that is partly to do with the seroma I had afer the op, which puts that side a couple of weeks behind the other with regards to healing... but this 'loose skin' thing never happened on the left side at all. I think there is still a little bit of fluid in there preventing the 'layers' from sticking back together again somehow.
It is having the left side to compare with that gives me something to measure against and know that the right side is a world apart - if both sides were like the right hand side, then I guess I'd just accept that's how it was meant to be... but when one side is pretty good, you can't help but be disappointed when the other side isn't so good?
I don't think any of us expect perfection? - we'd be setting ourselves up for failure if we did... especially as you rightly say the older guys like me(!)
Just like (almost) everyone before me, and no doubt just like everyone (almost) who will come after me, as each part of the process completes (surgery, bruising, swelling, etc.) the next part is brought sharply into focus. The problem I have at the moment is undoubtedly much less than I had before, but there is still a problem. In a t-shirt, it looks like I've got 2 very weird nipples on the right hand side!!
Here's a pic: