I really do like this bra though. It is one of those put it on and after awhile can't tell you're wearing. I take a pic like this and when I look at it I sometimes do a weird double take cause its like, pause... "Take a stare". I mean I am not trying to be vain... but is it wrong to say, "Wow that looks good?" It messes with your mind if you think to long about it.Hard to believe sometimes that its really me.Coping with the whole, you have very feminine presenting form of gynecomastia, as best as I can. Dude brain is saying "Now that's a nice pair of breasts.." but I don't know if its hormone imbalance whatever is off with genetics brain is saying "Hey jerk that's your chest have some dignity."