Looking down

[Justagirl💃]

Not the best picture,  but looking down at my 44DDD under a black tee from Torrid.  

Casual Sunday getting things ready for lunch with a friend.  

[Justagirl💃]

This morning 😀👍

[42CSurprise!]

The thought came to me after visiting this thread that I'm not the only person mesmerized by having breasts and wearing brassieres.  I sometimes think of myself as a bit of an outlier because of how I relate to the experience.  I think all the conversation about "comfort" has lead me to believe most men here are taking a rather utilitarian view of this new reality we find ourselves in. When I've posted photos they are often a bit more provocative.  But with the naked photos and now photos "looking down" I sense a bit more of playing at the edge.  Showing off cleavage will do that...   I'll have to think about getting a push-up brassiere so I can show off a bit more...  

[bobb]

I like the pictures that are shown on this thread and the naked photos also.

[Traveler]

I think it may be the next step of acceptance. Years of living in shame, that some of us are still in, and hiding in some of the most uncomfortable clothing. To go somewhere, that is even hard to find on the internet, helps alleviate the loneliness, pain and otherness, that we all still feel to some extent and being able to share our feelings and actually get support for that is irreplaceable. To actually get compliments for sharing what they’re becoming proud of brings us to the next step.

[gotgyne]

Yesterday my wife and I met an old friend, a lady who had her 84th birthday some weeks ago. Of course there were the hugs. I wore my bra as everyday, but she didn't react to my garment.

Just wear your bras and don't think too much what might happen.

[AlfaQ]

Well done you. We over estimate the chances of being discovered and so what if we are? Today I was wearing a bra under my cycling jersey as I was out on my bike. I caught sight of my reflection in some windows  and yes my underband and straps were visible through the fabric but with my tights and helmet my gender was ambiguous anyway.

[AlfaQ]

A black bra under a yellow jersey doing what it's designed to do.

[Parity]

I'll bet as your just riding and the shirt filling with a bit of air no one noticed.  I never glance to look that close as I pass someone. 
If you just stand I'll bet it doesn't look that tight either.  

  Good for you!

As you said, just live and be.  Life and the world will keep going.
 

[gotgyne]

Your yellow shirt with the black bra is a good combination.

I noticed that most people are such busy with themselves that they almost never look at all. If they do, they don't look too closely. In case they do they don't give a second look.

Many years ago I got a fit of courage and wore a thin white shirt over a white bra. I even went to a supermarket to buy something. No whispers, no laughter, just nothing. I almost was a little disappointed.

[WPW717]

42C,
No you are not the only one mesmerized by their breasts. I am growing in that direction too.

A result of acceptance, or a response to no T and Estrogen low dose therapy, who knows. I am just going with the flow.

[taxmapper]

I have and Endo. who wants me to get a mastectomy because things don't "fit" in her world view. or at lest drugs.   

I am perfectly willing to keep these and do not want anyone telling me I am "not normal" etc.   

Stay mesmerized by them and live life!  Don't be bullied. 

[Parity]

I have and Endo. who wants me to get a mastectomy because things don't "fit" in her world view. or at lest drugs. 

I am perfectly willing to keep these and do not want anyone telling me I am "not normal" etc. 

Stay mesmerized by them and live life!  Don't be bullied.

That I find out of line.  One who is not looking out for the patients best interest physically or emotionally but rather to make, (Him-Her), feel better.

Shameful.

We, all here who are active, understand and try to lift each other up  emotionally and with knowledge learned.  It is ones own choice on how to resolve an issue or problem.  

A Dr.'s recommendation is purely that.  Do whats best for you.  I'm not pushing either way on the issue.  I'm just stating how I deal with things and why.  Any suggestion is purely that.  Mine and a suggestion.

[Justagirl💃]

I have and Endo. who wants me to get a mastectomy because things don't "fit" in her world view. or at lest drugs. 

I am perfectly willing to keep these and do not want anyone telling me I am "not normal" etc. 

Stay mesmerized by them and live life!  Don't be bullied.

My Psychiatrist has mentioned it to me twice already, saying a double mastectomy would make me feel better about myself. That I need to work harder at "fitting in."

I told her I am happy with my breasts, I can't imagine not having them. And trying fitting into boy mode doesn't fix the fact that I'm intersex. That will always remain. It just places a bandaid over things so that her and my GP are happier. Their happiness is not my concern.  

[OldSlowAndRound]

I can go braless as I’m not that large, maybe a large B or small C, however almost every day I wear a bra as it’s more comfortable.  But I’m finding I’m getting tired of worrying about which shirt and which bra I “need” to wear. 

Last week I just tossed an old tshirt on over a bra and went to the home improvement store.  An employee was answering my questions and it was amusing to watch as he went back and forth between looking at my chest and the product we were talking about. 

I’ve purchased 3 bras that have liners and when they’re in, fill me out a little bit more along with one pushup bra.  These are a regular part of my bra rotations.  My thought is I’m continuing to grow, so why not figure out now how I’m going to handle continued growth.