Shopping for garments

[Justagirl💃]

I started out on this site in boy mode and hiding my breasts behind baggy layers. I was going braless at that time.

Neck and back pain, and a little encouragement from my doctor's nurse brought me to the realisation that I needed support. The occupational therapist suggested compression vests and those were a total failure. I came to realisation that I needed a bra.

My first bras were trial and error over Amazon. I went off the measurements that the occupational therapist had given me. Needless to say I wasted a lot of time and money trying to find something that would fit. I finally found a bra that would fit in the Glamorous brand and went with several of them. Unfortunately I noticed that my breast had teeth with those bras and ate right through them as they did not last long. Some of that might have been due to not properly washing them as well.

A CNA at the day-centre suggested I try Soma for a fitting. After much encouragement I finally decided to go in. On the way to Soma I passed Victoria's Secrets and decided to go in as well. The sales associate at Victoria's Secret was very kind and took my measurements, then calmly told me that they did not have anything in my size. She suggested I go to Torrid as they were for plus size individuals.
I decided to go ahead and go into Soma for a fitting as well I was basically told the same, Torrid was the place for me to go.

I was waited on by the store manager at Torrid when I walked in and she was very kind and understanding. She of course tried to sell me on the sports bra that I declined and told her no that the underwire is what I needed and she quickly grabbed handfuls of bras that fit my measurements. I settled on a few and purchased them. The first experience at Torrid was something I'll never forget.

I weighed 450 lb when I first went into Torrid, I was massively obese. I wore a 54 D. 
As I started my weight loss Journey Torrid was always there to help me fit into a new bra. I have been buying all my bras at Torrid ever since. I am now down to a 44 triple D.

Much has changed since my first experience at Torrid, for one I'm no longer in boy mode. Now bra shopping is just second nature and I pick up some nice tops and things to go with them.

Where do you shop? What has been your shopping experiences?

[Dudewithboobs]

At this point I simply shop online. I know my size for bras, tanks, and panties and jeans and brands I like. Being a guy makes it more about function and purpose than option and wardrobe to me so I just Amazon shop. 

When I did go into a store it was Walmart in the opening hours to avoid traffic of people and browse and find my preferred options and sizes and brands to try out in fitting rooms to make sure but don’t feel it’s neeeded now days 

[bobb]

I've never been fitted for a bra my wife took my measurements and she buys all my bras and pantyies at walmart.

[jan1north]

I discovered my gynecomastia in perhaps an unusual way.  While canoeing, wearing a life vest, the day ended with chest soreness and irritation from the rough synthetic outer material of the vest.  This raised my consciousness about my chest and soon after shoulder seat belts became an irritation - or better described as an inappropriate sensitive pleasure at the wrong place and time!  I tried covering with BandAids (plasters) but removal was painful - there had to be something better!

And so began a similar progression with bras over the last 8 years:  initially Amazon for sport style pull-overs and the local Jockey or Hanes/Bali outlet for similar.  I screwed up my courage then one day and stepped into a Lane Bryant and was measured 44B by a sympathetic SA.  I stepped away with my first cupped bras.  Next the local Kohl's knowing my real size (which is hard to find).  It's easy to grab a few bras there and slip into a fitting room as the staff is usually working stock, and no one is really paying any attention!  Initially I had some help from my wife selecting a few garments.  Torrid was next.  They were welcoming and helpful - particularly if your arrival is during a lull in business.  I measured a 42B.  I was in the process of loosing weight over time, and felt like I was headed out of their larger sizes.  Eventually, I stepped into Soma.  I found sympathy and was welcomed finding several 40B sizes that fit.  This began a long relationship with the staff at three Soma stores.  I also tried Victoria's Secret and found a similar welcome and help, but little stock to fit.  With my weight now well under 200#, I tend to go back to Soma now fitting 40/38 B/C.  I usually wait for their sales which make prices almost reasonable, and visit during quieter times of activity.  What has also helped has been keeping a few notes to remember SA names and physical descriptions as well as what has worked and what has not.  

I now appreciate why women are overwhelmingly in the wrong size, and otherwise hate bra shopping!  It's tough to find what fits as there have been so many that do not.  Top it off, confusing sizing and measurement methods have injected additional frustration.  Oh, there's just the plain fact that attempting to simply measure inherently 3D breasts with two linear dimensions is just simply ludicrous!

And, it's just a journey down one of the side streets of life!