Finding what works

[oldguy]

Some months ago I asked my wife if she’d be ok if I got a toy for myself. Embarrassing as it is just thought it’s better to ask than just do.

Yesteday I got around to it and it came overnight and opened it and set it in my office. Not to use just out of the way till she left for the day for work. She never comes in the office for anything. And guess what she decided to do today lol! I hear the office door open and go oh shhh head down to hope she’s in laundry room but nope.

Shirt in the office covering the toy in an intent to make sure it’s out of sight for who’s currently in the house for pest control.

On top of it, my lavender lotion I like to help ease nerves and stress at end of night as I love the scent is on desk also from last night applying it to neck before bed from working awhile in the office. Worst placement of two things ever lol.

Gave a glare and headed out for the day no love you see you later, no response to texts. Hoping she’s just in a busy as hell day and there’s no cause for concern later.

Dude,

Looks like you had the worst possible luck, possible.

After several knee operation between us and are 75, we have adapted to cuddling with music from our favorite romantic songs.  We do have toys and these get the job done.  I help her, for several times.  One is plenty for me.

I hope you are able to work this out and she understands your situation and needs.  

[WPW717]

Since the castration I have experienced 3 total body orgasms.

Unique experiences to say the least, wasn’t trying for the first two. Just us petting & cuddling. The third was a solo attempt and it took a massive amount of time & effort to produce. Won’t go that way again. Whew!

[AlfaQ]

It's great to hear that you are able to get sexual satisfaction since your castration.  Whole body orgasms take some effort but in my experience are more intense and pleasurable than what I had experienced before.  I think they are closer to what our female friends experience.  For me this along with my growing breasts has made me feel somewhat feminised but I have managed to reframe this as something new and exciting. 

[Dudewithboobs]

With my imbalance finding other options has been key. My wife I am not so sure would be on board with things. But personal time before hand has allowed me to be able to do things. 

Glad others here are finding other options as well 

[gotgyne]

With my imbalance finding other options has been key. My wife I am not so sure would be on board with things. But personal time before hand has allowed me to be able to do things.

Glad others here are finding other options as well

I've noticed that with the development of my breasts erectile dysfunction started and got worse as the breasts got bigger. In the beginning as my penis was still semi rigid I could use a hollow strap on and move it with my penis. Some time later there was no erection at all and I had to switch to a strap on with a harness. This is sex just as some lesbians do it.

But if I had the choice getting my breasts removed surgically and be capable to get strong erections again (this is only hypothetical since I know it is impossible) or keeping my breasts and stay completely impotent I'd always opt for my breasts. I'm quite done with my male functions.