I’m not certain who owns the site. It may be clear on the front page but just never looked in to it. However, I can see why at some points in time an owner may go, “ok this is clearly moving in to a direction of fantasy and fetish for some who are here for jollies rather than support” but I feel the overwhelming majority of us are truly here because as the description of acceptance here says “celebrate our assets”.
There are times where it is clear those who don’t need a bra, don’t have anything other than a little fat on the chest, come in and act like they are Dolly Parton and by their language and wording you can tell they are just here to try and get a response for excitement.
There are countless forums for that and I’m sure they are there as well. However, I again, think the overwhelming majority here are here for the right and properly designed reasons this site was made for. And believe whoever may be here owning the site, if they administer and monitor it, or just pay the annual service fee to keep it up and running, understands that a few bad apples can ruin the bunch. But the tree shouldn’t be cut down because of it.
Those who come here for the incorrect reasons are often here today gone in a few weeks after they’ve gotten their thrills and the rest of us carry on with honest and intentional discussions, advice and guidance to those who are common here and those who are new to be the welcoming committee for those accepting their breasts.
I know without this forum I would be insecure and lack confidence in a bra or realizing I need one. I don’t have nor could I justify spending 6500-8k on removal. Especially when others have and got growth recurring by countless patients. Because of this forum I have made great strides in my acceptance of being a guy with breasts and come to celebrate them and appreciate them and see them as they are and take care of them as they need to be.
And I believe that for the most of us here is similar. And don’t really get nervous about this forum disappearing because of it.