And please, no one here has again tried to disprove me on my theory that gyno is no different than again any other aesthetic condition that people obsess over and feel that they need surgery to correct.
again please ??
I'll take you up on your challenge.
Please bear with me as this will take some time.
Gynecomastia if significant (you had very little to none) is different to other cosmetic conditions in that;
If someone is asked who they are on a television program or in an interview etc they
invariably go along a series of events.
They state their name, "hi I'm Chris", their job "I am an "accountant", then their family situation, “I am married to Karen and I have three kids John, Gemma and Sally”.
Sometimes people state their family details before that of their job details.
However there is something more intimate, more personal as to who they/we are than all of that, it comes top of hierarchy when it comes to who we are.
And it is this;
Our gender.
Now 90% of the time it goes unsaid, people do not have to state there gender because it is obvious.
One of the very few things that can for many men bring this into question is gynecomastia, because breasts are a VERY female attribute (I am talking breasts here MRfantastic- not miniscule tissue).
Having moderate to significant breasts can make a man question his very worth, can make him question how much of a man he really is.
It can have that severity in terms of its psychological impact.
You spoke about women having small breasts- but that in of itself is not remotely a male characteristic, it just isn't.
The nearest a woman can come to this condition would be to have a beard or moustache- significantly.
Try and find me a women with significant moustache or beard growth who is not significantly psychologically affected, a woman who has had her gender brought into question by such a condition.
You see these women suffer in a similar way.
Given this condition relates to gender and the deepest and most intimate questions of psychology, gynecomastia has an aspect that many/most other cosmetic problems do not have.
But you cannot relate to this because you have never had it and will never understand, you can only relate to the world through your experiences which are obviously though of BDD.
You talk of those never getting over having gynecomastia irrespective of surgery.
But I never had a problem with my body, even when I had gynecomastia until it got very bad at 28. So most of my life I had no problem. Physically it got very bad so I had a problem. Now it is removed and again I have no problem at all.
So you’re talking complete crap.
In another post you spoke about gynecomastia was all about people fitting into tighter shirts.
NO IT ISN'T!!!!!
You’re projecting your feelings onto others yet again!!!.
MY Gynecomastia was so bad I could Never wear a massive loose T-shirt, even if I was in great shape!!!!
I couldn't even wear most shirts.
Mostly the only thing that covered my gynecomastia- which effectively was a set a full on breasts- was a coat!!!
Now please don't EVER try and relate yourself to me or people like me in terms of the gynecomastia because it is a sick joke!!!
Answer my challenge if you want but in all honesty, given you will just flounder;
I hope you don't and instead put some of that family money to good by getting you the help you need to resolve your psychological issues.
P.S
In over two years of seeing photographs of gynecomastia on this website not once have I EVER seen a more obvious case of a normal chest pre op than yours. I would go as far to say you never even REMOTELY had gynecomastia.
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